This is now my rodeo account and you all have to deal with it. š¤
Two amazing photos taken at the Texas Tradition Rodeo.
First by @macyalexphoto
Second by @cowboysandcattlequeens
I competed in my third gay rodeo this past weekend ā Rodeo in the Rock in Little Rock, Arkansas. I didnāt take many photos, but I did come home with my first buckle. The Rookie of the Rodeo buckle is unique to this rodeo and goes to the rookie with the most points at the end of the weekend. I also took home a 4th place ribbon in chute dogging and a 4th place ribbon with Gunner in goat dressing.
Iām so grateful to the many people who have supported me, let me borrow horses, lent me their gear, and coached me so far. The gay rodeo community has made me feel alive in a way I havenāt in a very long time š I have my fourth rodeo this weekend and my fifth the following weekend! Iām tired but so happy š
Spent a few incredible days in the desert that included sending my first off-width crack (the giant boulder pictured, called Plumberās Crack), going to a wedding, visiting Zion National Park for the first time, and starting my Teva tan lines for the summer šš¤ šµ
Amazing climbing photos by @coldhotcocoa š
When I was two weeks old, my dad held me up in front of a Clydesdale while visiting the Budweiser barn in New Hampshire. Years later, he would joke that the moment is what led to my obsession with horses. I started riding when I was 10 and competed in 4-H shows and rodeo until I went off to college. But then in my 20s I came out as nonbinary, and suddenly it felt like the more conservative horse world, and rodeo specifically, was a home I might never return to.
Then this summer I learned that the International Gay Rodeo Association would celebrate 50 years of gay rodeo in Reno in October. I pitched the story to my editor and thought it would be a great moment to cover queer joy. But once my boots touched that arena dirt, it became a homecoming.
I met Chuck Browning, a cowboy who got into rodeo after being diagnosed with HIV in 1990 and given a prognosis of five years. At 61, he has significantly outlived what he calls his āexpiration date,ā and now mentors younger competitors in events like steer riding. He even joked about getting me on a bucking steer. I donāt know if that will ever happen, but telling his story and the story of how the gay rodeo has endured all these years made me feel like Iāll be able to return home to rodeo one day after all.
Story link is in my bio. Photos in the first slide by the amazing @alliexjesse
This has easily been one of the best summers of my life. I finally got to fulfill my years long dream of visiting Glacier National Park ā and with an amazing all-queer group. I became an uncle for the 5th time. My best friend came to visit. Not really pictured is that I also went to Squamish and did my first two outdoor crack climbs! The included photo is of Reese climbing. Wildly enough, thereās still more on my calendar for the next few weeks. Feeling more like myself and more excited for life than I have in a long time. I hope youāre all finding joy where you can too š