Lower the Bar started heavily when the kids were younger and I was doing lots of activities with them. The shift of throwing together an activity in .4 seconds made my life so much easier and more enjoyable!
Now that they’re a little older and we aren’t doing daily activities, we are still heavy on the motto in so many other ways that still make being their mom less performative for the internet and more enjoyable
Kids don’t need “magic”
They need a relaxed parent who isn’t frazzled trying to do the most
So lets collectively take a breath, lower the bar, and enjoy all this without the pressure✨
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Let’s all lower the motherhood bar for sanity’s sake!
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Good enough club right here!👍🏼
And if you WANT to do those things, thats amazing. But if you are doing them simply because you feel like you’re supposed to, please know you can come to my page at any time for inspiration on how to do less 😂
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To be clear- we are not going to California and we also haven’t been to church in like 18 months 💀😂
I’m tell you the ones I have for next week might be the best yet!!
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A perfectly timed reminder with Mother’s Day to lower the bar so everyday can be fun again! Take the unimportant stuff out of your brain and make space for the stuff that really matters!
What are some ways you lowered the bar this week??
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So in summary, Mr. police, she’s incredibly athletic and she needs to buy a black car. Please find her
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Comment MS1 for any of these sets! Perfect for not overthinking an outfit and for summer!
One thing about me is when I find something I like, I’m going to buy it in a million colors 💀 hence the tank top I have in 15 colors. So these are tried and true sets!
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Do you think they played Saturday if they won Wednesday??😂
Also spoiler alert they did not win Wednesday and we ended up going to Disney
Juggling 4 schedules is not for the weak and sometimes you just have to call someone an idiot okay it’s called coping
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Welcome to the new series where each week I’ll show you exactly how we can stop caring SO much about the stuff that takes up way too much brain space.
These are just SOME of the way I lowered the bar this week. Not pictured- mismatched outfits, days with too much screen time, a child who refused to let me brush her hair so she walked around with a rats nest.
But with a lower bar, we will clear up brain space for stuff that actually matters in the long run- like raising kind, hard working, and compassionate kids!
So this week just think- how low can you go. And if you’re like I can’t do this. Don’t worry I’m doing it enough for the both of us 💀
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