By the grace of God, I can finally say itās over.
After endless dr appointments, 16 rounds of chemo, port surgery, a double mastectomy, reconstruction, and every step in between, I am officially DONE. I am healed, I am cleared, and I am stepping into this new chapter covered in His faithfulness.
There were days I leaned entirely on Godās strength when mine was goneābut He carried me through every moment. He never left me.
This journey has ended, and my heart is overflowing with gratitude. God is so good.
Iām done. Iām healed. Iām free. š¤
Last night was one of those moments I want to remember forever. Getting dressed, doing my hair, and simply looking at myself in the mirror⦠I felt beautiful. Not just on the outside, but from within. Iāve learned that true beauty really does start inside, and after everything Iāve been through, that feeling means so much more to me now.
Celebrating my nieceās quinceaƱera while feeling radiant and receiving all those compliments made the night even more special. A quinceaƱera is such a joyful celebration of growth and transition, and in a way it felt like I was celebrating my own transformation too. āØ
But what touched me the most wasnāt just what people said, it was how I truly felt about myself.
My cancer journey changed me in ways Iām still discovering. It taught me strength, gratitude, and how precious every moment really is. Last night I realized how much Iāve grown. Iām learning to love who I am, appreciate how far Iāve come, and embrace the woman Iām continuing to become.
This is what healing looks like for me. Feeling present. Feeling grateful. Feeling confident in my own skin. Loving the person Iām evolving into.
And last night, I truly felt beautiful. āØš
How she thinks I see her.. vs š„¹
Seventeen years ago I became a mom. I was just a teen, stepping into the biggest responsibility of my life, not fully knowing how I would make it through but determined to give my daughter everything I had.
And now, here we are. She turns 17.. A full, beautiful circle.
I look at her and see strength, grace, intelligence, and a heart so full of light. Despite every obstacle we faced, every struggle that came with being a teen mom, she has grown into someone truly amazing. Watching her become this beautiful, smart, resilient young woman has been the greatest blessing of my life.
Iām so proud of the teen mom I was.. the girl who chose love, who chose courage, who chose to fight through the hard days. And I am even more proud of the young woman my daughter has become, my greatest gift. We grew up together, and I wouldnāt change a single moment of our journey. š
To all my BREASTIES facing breast cancer especially the ones who were recently diagnosed I hope this finds you: having a cancer diagnosis is not an easy pill to swallow. It can feel heavy, overwhelming, and even frightening. The emotions that come with it; confusion, fear, sadness are real and valid. Itās hard. Itās difficult. And sometimes it may feel unfair.
But as challenging as the journey may be it is also a path of growth. Along the way, you begin to discover strength you didnāt know you had. You learn resilience. You learn patience. You learn how to appreciate even the smallest victories.
A diagnosis does not define your entire story. It becomes one chapter, not the whole book. Through the ups and downs, there are still positive moments, still laughter, still hope. Good things can still happen. Dreams can still be pursued. Joy can still be found.
The journey may not be easy, but it can still be meaningful. And sometimes, through the hardest seasons, we find the most powerful parts of ourselves.
Look at me now! Thriving and living my best life! #blessedandgrateful #tnbcthriver #survivor #explorepage⨠#cancer
Watch me style my hair in 30 secondsā¦
Had to figure out something to do to my hair⦠definitely didnāt achieve it in 30 seconds lol howād I do?!
2025 tried to take my lifeāendless doctor appointments, over 16 rounds of chemotherapy, iced my hands and feet until they were numb, countless trips to the hospital, pricked and probed like a lab rat, endless medication, surgeries, scans, fear, pain, hair loss, set backs, missed out on many life events and moments I never thought Iād survive. I faced anaphylactic shock, overwhelming fear, and the terror of continuing chemo, yet somehow found the strength to keep going. Through it all, I was held up by unwavering support from friends and family, learned who could stay close and who had to fall away, made new friends and discovered a faith deeper than I ever imagined. Still experienced many joyful moments than I thought possible. Cancer tried to break me, but God had other plans. Iām still hereā CANCER FREE, grateful, blessed, and filled with joy and hope for the year ahead. Iāve started living in the moment and being more intentional about my life!
CHEERS š„ to life, strength and second chancesāØ
So excited for 2026! š«¶š½
This year was brutal, cancer tested me in ways I wouldnāt wish on anyone. It changed everything, broke me down, and rebuilt me stronger than I knew I could be. Im still standing. Still grateful.
Merry Christmas 2025āØš from my family to yours!
This one means more than ever!
POV: I couldnāt wait for the edits to arrive these are raw footage and pics I took myself while the photographer was working lol
Just got the call š„¹š„¹š„¹š„¹ I really did it Iām DONE!!!! Cancer didnāt stand a chance! I freaking beat CANCER! šš½šš½šš½šš½šš½šš½šš½
Homecoming 2025 Junior year! š„°š
I canāt believe my baby is already a Junior. Sheās not such a baby anymore, and as much as it makes me a little sad to see how fast time is flying, Iām incredibly proud of the young woman sheās becoming. Iām filled with so many emotions ā pride, love, and yes, a little sadness. Watching her grow into the incredible young woman sheās becoming is one of the greatest joys of my life. I couldnāt be more proud of her journey. Adulthood is just around the corner, but in my heart, sheāll always be my little girl. š #ProudMom #junior #JuniorYear #TimeFlies
āThey say the hardest part is over once you finish chemotherapy. And in many ways, that should feel true. Iāve made it through months of treatment-- the fatigue, the sickness, the uncertaintyā and Iām incredibly grateful for the strength that carried me this far. But now Iām facing the next chapter : a double mastectomy with reconstruction. And somehow, mentally and emotionally, this part feels even harder. The idea of loosing a part of my body ā something so personal, so tied to identity and femininityā is overwhelming. Itās a different kind of pain. Itās not just physical; itās deeply emotional and in incredibly vulnerable. Iāve tried to prepare myself, to stay strong, to hold it all together⦠but the truth is, Iām not ok right now. Iām scared, Iām exhausted, and Iām grieving whatās ahead even as I try to stay hopeful.
This journey isnāt linear. Itās not just about surviving one part and moving on to the next. Itās about navigating waves of fear, strength, sadness, and resilience ā all at once.
So if youāre in this space too ā scared, unsure, or simply tired ā please know youāre not alone. And if you see me smiling, just know thereās a whole world behind it. Iām doing my best, even when itās hard.ā #ivorystrong
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