Penelope’s Quinceañera this past weekend was a memorable & joyous occasion by the Medina-Frutos family.
I am thankful that the universe made us family. Beginning in Jiquilpan, Jalisco, —un pueblo del que escribió Juan Rulfo en el llano en llamas— the Larios family now spans across generations and borders.
My first experience with a Rodriguez-Larios quinceañera was at my cousin Alma’s in 1980s Guadalajara when I was a kid. Now we are gathering again acá in 2026. Our families have migrated since the 1960s, moving from Jiquilpan to Guadalajara and then to Southern California. But thanks to these celebrations, we can come together as we add new members to the family, by birth and by choosing.
This is how Rubén, P’s dad and I became family. Seeing Ruben and his amazing fatherhood with my nieces is always wonderful. And to think that we met inside a jail…
One night in the late 1990s, at a gig inside the old Lincoln Heights Jail, I unexpectedly encountered my cousin Michelle, who was holding court by the stage. Mickey was there acompañando her now-husband Rubén. He was part of the original Left Alone line-up. Rubén moved on to raise his family, but Elvis keeps the
@leftaloneofficial legend going. BTW, Elvis made a cameo at the quince!
Penelope’s celebration was rooted in the multifaceted Mexican American experience of LA’s South Bay/Harbor region. There was Ballet folklorico, bilingual speeches, music, and a special performance by
@elMariachiManchester led by the masters Moi and Dr. Jess, all expertly produced by the one and only Denise along with the Frutos siblings, Robert as the MC and Claudia and fam as team effort.
The Smiths/Moz songs are part of the LÁ soundtrack, even when MOZ is 🤨
Asi que abusando de la confianza, I asked them to perform “This Charming Man,” as I thought of this song when my father was in the hospital a couple of years back. I am fortunate that my dad was very much present along with my mom at the quince. She lives with Alzheimer’s, but the music and seeing family kept her happy and in the moment during the whole evening.
Gracias a mis hermanas por compartir el cuidado de mis padres.
Y a toda la familia ¡siempre es una alegría verles!