Stop listening to every opinion around you.
Be bold. Be yourself.
Because whether you like it or notā¦
There will always be people around you who discourage you sometimes without even knowing it.
Iāve been learning something recentlyā¦
Words are seeds.
People say things like,
āContent creation is not for youā¦ā
āThis thing wonāt workā¦ā
They might not even be talking to you directlyā¦
But because youāre already struggling insideā¦
You start believing it.
And thatās how doubt grows.
So if you want to stay focused on your journeyā¦
you have to protect your mind.
Trust God.
Trust yourself.
Because like Funke Akindele saidā¦
Once you discover who you areā¦
Itās not even consistency that pushes you to the topā¦
Itās your identity.
So be careful what you listen to.
Be careful the kind of seeds people plant in your life.
Because seeds grow.
And they can either build youā¦
or break you.āš
āAny woman that keeps doing these 5 things⦠will never evolve in life.ā
1. Gossiping
If your daily conversations are about people⦠instead of purpose⦠youāre already behind.
Protect your mind.ā
2. Comparison
āNumber two
comparing yourself.
Youāre watching another womanās life instead of building yours.
There is only ONE you⦠act like it.ā
3. Lack of Confidence
āNumber three⦠no confidence.
And I donāt just mean inside.
The way you sit⦠the way you talk⦠the way you show upā¦
It speaks before you even open your mouth.ā
4. No Boundaries
āNumber four being too nice.
Youāre kind but people keep crossing you.
Thatās not kindness⦠thatās lack of boundaries.ā
5. No Direction (Strong finish)
āNumber five⦠no direction.
Youāre just living⦠not growing.
No goals, no vision⦠just vibes.
Thatās dangerous.ā
āBe honest⦠which one are you working on right now?ā
āWhen it didnāt happen to you⦠it happened for you.ā
On Sunday, we talked about something very realā¦
coping with loss.
Loss in any form
people, opportunities, time, relationshipsā¦
And three things stood out to me:
Run to God for comfort
Share your pain with others healing can come through shared experiences
Do something that makes you happy keep your mind active
But let me be honestā¦
That last part?
Thatās where many of us struggle.
We stay stuck.
We sit in the pain.
We refuse to move.
Iām not saying ignore your pain.
Iām not saying donāt feel it.
But I am sayingā¦
Donāt let it stop your life.
Learn to live through it
in a more positive and productive way.
Because life is still moving.
Time is still ticking.
So instead of asking,
āWhy is this happening to me?ā
Start asking:
āWhat is this season teaching me?ā
Because in the place of lossā¦
people discover purpose.
People redefine themselves.
People grow.
So donāt let that season break you.
Let it build you.
Cry if you need to.
Pray.
Heal.
But alsoā¦
Rise.
What has life taught you in your hardest season
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I held on for 4 years⦠longer than I should have.ā
And I gave it everythingā¦
my time, my energy, my effort everything.
But Iāve learned something recently.
Sometimes, itās not about trying harder.
Itās about knowing when to let go.
I read in Essentialism that we often hold on to things longer than we should⦠even when theyāre no longer working.
Not because theyāre right for us,
but because weāve already invested so much.
But the truth isā¦
If youāve done everything humanly possibleā¦
maybe itās time to release it.
So Iāll ask you thisā¦
What are you still holding on to?
Maybe itās time to let go⦠and move forward.ā
While I was studying today, I realized something about my life.
Growing up, I thought I was just trying to survive.
If I didnāt sell, I wouldnāt eat.
If I didnāt sell, I wouldnāt go to school.
But today I realized something.
Sales wasnāt just survival.
Sales was my identity.
All those years⦠I was practicing something I didnāt even know I was good at.
So now Iām going back to it.
Learning it.
Studying it.
Mastering it.
Because Iāve finally accepted something about myself.
Sales is me.
And Iām documenting the journey of becoming better at it.
#Lifeofarebuildingmom
⢠Learning sales
⢠Business lessons
⢠Personal growth
⨠Iām Back āØ
Years ago, I started a journey a business that challenged me, shaped my mindset, and taught me what it truly means to trust myself and believe in my potential. For personal reasons, I stepped away, but that dream never left me.
Today, Iām returning with renewed focus, energy, and purpose.
Iām diving deep into the world of saleslearning, growing, and preparing to not only succeed but also teach others how to sell with confidence and skill.
This is my commitment to myself: to grow, to show up, and to build the life Iāve always dreamed ofa life of freedom, opportunity, and possibility.
Iām ready for the next chapter, and Iām inviting you to follow along, share in the journey, and witness the transformation.
Hereās to resilience, growth, and the power of never giving up on your dreams. šŖ
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