"You Can Say Hi With Only a Smile" is written by Merriam Sarcia Saunders and illustrated by Tracy Nishimura Bishop.
Merriam Sarcia Saunders, a licensed family therapist, wants children to feel secure in the fact that there are many different ways to communicate. The cheery book follows a girl who encounters a host of alternative methods of saying hello, including handshakes, nods, waves, hugs, and writing on an electronic device, showing readers that all salutations are equally valid. (”We’re not all the same. And our greetings are not the same either.”)
A Child Mind Institute expert calls the book “a sweet and gentle story that reminds children there are many ways to connect with others. It helps them understand that every person expresses friendliness in their own way.” For ages 4-8.
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