elliot skates degrassi 🛼

my interactive horror story about a women’s crew team and the transphobia that consumes them whole is out now!! free to read, link in bio, enjoy 🖤 art by my bestie @fruity.hag

hi meet tony hawk degrassi <3 he is five months old and weighs four pounds and would not stop yelling at me at the shelter until i took him home. his favorite activities are cuddling me nonstop and purring all day long and yelling when he can’t see me and trying to eat my food and basically he’s the best birthday present ever

hi im 30 as of today !! here are some fun things i did this week <3

two years ago today i told myself i was gonna do low dose testosterone for max 3 months anyway two years of regular dose testosterone sure has done a guy good swipe to see what i looked like before thank u @graceamongmany for always being the jay manuel to my confused lesbian who’s not really sure im supposed to be here

Sometimes a family is two divorced lesbians and a dog! Take a moment from doomscrolling our capitalist hellscape full of p*dophiles and instead enjoy the most wholesome photoshoot of the DeGrassi-Lazos Family. Also, consider this a preview of our holiday card. DM me ur address if you want one!!🕎🎉🎄✨💕 #jcpenneyphotoshoot #jcpenneyportraits #familyphotoideas #fatjoy #chosenfamily #chosenfam #theywereroommates #bestiesforever #queerjoy #foundfamily #unconventionalfamily #pugowner #puglove

my dear sweet baby angel chloe degrassi crossed the rainbow bridge at home in my arms last wednesday after a really tough battle with lymphoma. everybody who met her knew she was truly a special cat, and everybody who’s talked to me in the nearly four years since i adopted her knows how much ive loved her. she went from living on the streets to getting kicked out of the brooklyn cat cafe for bullying the other cats to sleeping either on or above my bed every single night, waking me up every single day for breakfast, and following up the thousands of kisses she gave me with gentle bites so i never forgot where i stood with her. my heart is truly broken and i miss her so so dearly 🖤 (not sure where to slide this in but - swipe and volume up first for loud chloe purrs and then to listen to her record her podcast with the microphone plush she stole off my shelf) the hospital costs for her care through the lymphoma and the anemia it caused were immense and im going to be paying them off for quite some time. ive put the link to my gofundme in my bio if anyone is able to help ease this burden. im extremely grateful for all of the love and support ive received through this process 🖤

im never any good at remembering to take photos, but we’ve at least got some tangible proof that ive had a fun summer <3 doesn’t that first photo rlly look like we bought the goonies house

portland was really pretty and the people were also okay i guess yes half of these pics are actually newport. sue me

hi. this year was really fucking hard. anybody who’s talked to me for even five seconds knows this. it’s also been really incredibly rewarding. i got divorced, i moved, i started T, i traveled way more than i ever have, i loved a lot and got an outpouring of love in return. things got really really scary for me for a little bit in there, but im really grateful to everybody who supported me through the hardest times 🖤 here’s some of the best moments and people from it in some semblance of chronological order. if you’re not pictured it’s almost certainly because i forgot to take photos so remind me next time!! and there will be a next time everybody hang out w me in 2025 or else xoxo 1. kicking @bearing019 ’s ass at air hockey 2. @melebones pranking me 3. you ever have so much fun in scotland you come back three months later 4. sonic symphony w @m.lex.t event of the fucking summer 5. @rqcha ’s bachelorette ft i do not think i can pull off a bucket hat 6. ninja training with @marcelsleeps hey remember when i had two hip surgeries and didn’t think id be able to walk again 7. sunshine in vermont 8. crying at @rqcha and @mattporter.jpg ’s wedding 9. chloe cat taking as much care of me as i do for her 10. me, now, learning to become more and more myself 🖤

dogtober (dog october)

she risked another disastrous united airlines flight to be the perfect wedding date <3 congrats to @rqcha and @mattporter.jpg , or as i frequently referred to them during my senior year of college, “bestie you should date that tall man he made you so happy” 🖤 i have never been prouder of being right, and it brings me so much joy to know you’ll continue making each other so happy ✨

doggust (dog august) in no particular order