When does being soft stop feeling dangerous?
We want flow.
We crave Ease.
To accomplish flow and ease we must find softness.
You cannot be soft if you do not find strength.
The inner core kind of strength.
When you feel weak, you protect yourself and harden.
Your body stiffens.
Your words get sharp.
You brace for impact.
Not because you want to be š¤š¤Æš¤¬.
But because if you soften⦠you think youāll collapse.
That people will run over you.
Your boundaries wonāt be kept.
I see this all the time with powerful women.
Women who are naturally fluid.
Intuitive & Strong.
Terrified of being soft.
So they build armor, little turtle shells. š¢
Rigid.
Sharp.
Brittle.
But brittle isnāt strength.
Real strength is being solid on your feet.
Being at peace with who you are
And being at peace when you donāt know who you are
When this happens ā¦softness stops being dangerous.
It becomes power.
Your boundaries arenāt stone walls.
Theyāre alive.
Responsive to the situation.
Clear.
And when you shine⦠people come toward the light.
You become a little lightening bug that nobody can put into a jar.
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Written for European womanās day š¼
(But Iām a week late posting! š)
Filmed in Buenos Aires, Argentina š„ š¦š·
Saying hello from Shenzhen, China ššØš³
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Do you have an idea of what fusion partner dancing is? Does this fit your mold, or break it?
(More on that below!)
The two of us, Mark & Flouer, will be collaborating on many projects this spring š
Our two weeklong intensives are called The Convergence Labs, and weāll be doing two different themes- one in Berlin and the other in NYC. Registration is open for everything below:
Full tour schedule:
⺠Zürich Flüesli - May 8-10
āŗ Fusionautsā Quest Masterclasses - May 22-24
āŗ The Berlin Convergence Lab - May 25-29
āŗ The NYC ConvergenceLab - June 16-19
āŗ Motley Hue Fusion NYC - June 19-21
Great, but what about this dance?
The style in this video is a fusion of many things, but draws heavily upon the āFusion Dialectā of Smoothstepping.
Smoothstepping is an āold schoolā combination of ballrooming blues, tango, slow jazz, and other ballroom styles.
One of the original fusion forms from āback in the dayā, weāve never stopped dancing it and now weāre making it ānew schoolā. š
It utilizes progressive traveling and momentum accordion partner mechanics, and is an amazing way to introduce traveling technique into your dance coming directly from the fusion world.
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Performance - Hi-Fi Fusion, Fall 2024 in Seattle
@flouerdances & @themarkcarpenter
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#danceteacherlife #fusiondance #fusionpartnerdance #socialdance
Performance at Hi-Fi Fusion in Seattle, Fall 2024.
@flouerdances & @themarkcarpenter
Hello, Iām Flouer! š
(You can pronounce it simply āflowerāš»)
There has been an influx of over 150 people in the last few days, and I feel so grateful for the support! Thank you for joining me on this platform ā¤ļøš
I thought I would introduce myself properly, since many people donāt know me yet. Feel free to introduce yourself below, and include your location! Iād love to get to know you.
My mission in life is to help people connect to their bodies, their partners, and the world around them through movement.
I am a partner dance instructor and embodiment coach. What does that mean?!
As a partner dance instructor I travel the world sharing my love and dedication to the art forms of Blues Dance and Fusion Partner Dancing.
I love that I get to teach dance to all kinds of people through these forms, as they are friendly for all ages and abilities. Iām also a huge nerd and love to do historical research, develop curriculum, and figure out the mechanics of a movement.
Several years ago I started my journey to become an embodiment coach because I had experiences working with students for years and the same problems would come up for them over and over- they couldnāt overcome them through dance alone.
I knew intuitively that these were life problems they were dealing with, not dance problems, but I didnāt have the tools or permission to work with them in the way they needed.
After several years of study Iām proudly beginning to offer 1:1 sessions, classes and retreats that use movement, the body, and partnering to help people overcome the difficulties in their lives. It is truly fulfilling work for me.
Thanks so much for stopping by, and I hope to see you somewhere in the world soon!
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#partner #dance #dancer #danceteacher #partnerdance #bluesdance #embodiment #embodimentcoach #embodimentcoaching #fusiondance #fusionpartnerdancing
Weāre coming up to our last moments to register for the Berlin Convergence Lab: May 25-29, 2026.
Itās a training for experienced dancers working on combining dance forms.
Itās going to be a small group with lots of individualized attention.
Send a pm if you have questions, otherwise š in bio for info.
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#partnerdance #fusiondance #fusionpartnerdance #danceteacher
MĆ”gicos momentos que vivimos en la Ćŗltima Inmersión con Dani & Flouerš«¶
Todos fue cuidado al detalle! Los espacios, la comida, la facilitación, las instalaciones, la organización, la mĆŗsica, el equipo y con unos participantes de primera š«
š²Quieres venir a la siguiente?
āš¼Guardaos la tercera semana de Noviembre!
Gracias
@dj_kyong por la mĆŗsica & sensibilidad
@flouerdances & @danicoulant por las clases magistrales
@casarurallolivera por el espacio
@crisvincle por el soporte de lo humano e invisible
@albaortiz18 por coordinar y cuidar
@brihataudiovisual por las imĆ”genes y la edición del vĆdeo
@agymerta por atendernos el cuerpo
@nereacarryon , @mireia_de_larbre i Jordi por los cantos y mĆŗsica
@gongrandhir por El super Viaje sonoro
@Juanka & @Jorge por los desayunos
Nos vemos pronto :)
A little about Smoothstepping ā¦
Began in early 2000ās as a mix between ballroom blues, tango, and other ballroom dances.
Itās danced to a ton of different types of music, and it gets us out and about, moving across the dance floor.
Join us for the NYC Convergence Lab before @motleyhue.events to learn a little more about it.
Weāll also touch on it briefly in our Berlin Convergence Lab.
@flouerdances & @themarkcarpenter
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#partnerdance #fusiondance #fusionpartnerdance #socialdance #danceteacher
To all of my amazing Kaleidacampers!! @kaleidoscopefusion
Oh what a magical week we had together! Spending a week living in a castle, dancing and practicing every day, eating amazing food, laughing continuously with so much joy and inside jokes.
I treasured the morning time outside in the vividly green almost-spring hills.
Drinking lovingly made tea by John in the Village Hall every day.
Coming up with all new names for the dance positions! We firmly decided that āespressoā, āmediumā, and ālatteā were the appropriate terms.
Our week long anthem⦠āShut Up š!ā
Preparing classes with Frankie (@frankienarrates ) in our fancy lit rooms⦠I couldnāt ask for a better co-conspirator! We had so much fun both prepping and teaching together.
We have had a bit of time apart now to let the dust settle, and a renewed sense of gratitude & fond memories of my quiet hours planning classes by my castle window has resurfaced.
Canāt wait for next year! Are you coming this time?
March 21-28, 2027
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#fusiondance #fusionpartnerdance #partnerdance #danceteacherlife #kaleidoscopefusion
Easter⦠Spring⦠the Equinox⦠cycles and change⦠turning of the seasons, the flowers bloom, the green things grow, spring cleaning commences, and the perennials resurrect from the death of winter.
Signs of fertility and new beginnings start to show up everywhere.
What are my commitments to new beginnings this season?
I am committed to dancing more, documenting more of my thoughts, and typing a little less.
Itās finally time for those āNew Yearā resolutions.
To rebirth the new self, to break out from your egg shell š£.
Maybe a little spring cleaning of the soul. š¼
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#spring #memes #easter #change
Part 1: What are the fusion dances Micro & Throwdown?
At the NYC Convergence Lab weāll be teaching four dance styles that have emerged from the fusion community, by fusion dancers.
In Part 2 we describe the beautiful but lesser known Lyrical & Smoothstepping dances
Come join us!
Instructors: @flouerdances & @themarkcarpenter
NYC Convergence Lab
June 16-19, 2026
Before Motley Hue Festival: June 19-22
Details:
FlouerDances.com/nycconvergence
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#fusiondance #fusionpartnerdance #danceteacher #partnerdance
š¶ LABORATORIO ESPERIENZIALE DI BLUES | 11-12 APRILE š¶
"From Delta to Funk: A Blues Music & Dance Journey"
Un viaggio alla scoperta della musica Blues e della ricca varietĆ di stili di ballo a cui ha dato origine.
Sotto la guida di una delle più affermate artiste del panorama Blues Internazionale, Flouer, ripercorreremo l'evoluzione degli stili Blues dalle origini fino ai suoni più recenti, per comprendere come questi cambiamenti si riflettono sul nostro ritmo, sullo stile, sulla consistenza e sul groove del nostro ballo in pista.
Questo viaggio esperienziale basato su un perfetto mix di cenni storici e strumenti pratici renderĆ l'intero panorama della musica e del ballo Blues accessibile a tutti, consentendo ad ognuno di ballare immediatamente e divertirsi su qualsiasi brano.
š PROGRAMMA:
SABATO 11 APRILE:
14:15: Apertura Segreteria
14:30-16:30 : Workshop Blues "From the Delta to the Ballroom" - Part 1
16:30-17:00 : Break
17:00-19:00 : Workshop Blues "From the Delta to the Ballroom" - Part 2
DOMENICA 12 APRILE
14:30-16:30 : Workshop Blues "Latin Rhythms & Funk"
16:30-19:30 : Blues Social Dancing
20:00-21:00 : AperiCena a Buffet
21:00-00:00 : AfterParty
šLOCATION:
⢠WORKSHOP DI SABATO: eMotion Dance School (Via Primo Maggio 8, Origgio - 2° Piano) ā nei pressi delle Uscite Autostradali di Origgio/Lainate/Saronno e del Centro Commerciale di Arese
⢠WORKSHOP, SOCIAL & AFTERPARTY DI DOMENICA: Carro Social Club - Via Luigi Granelli 1, Sesto San Giovanni
WORKSHOP A NUMERO CHIUSO - POSTI LIMITATI - PRENOTAZIONE OBBLIGATORIA
SCOPRI TUTTE LE INFORMAZIONI E PRENOTA ORA IL TUO POSTO! ā¬ļø
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Infoline:
š± Whatsapp/Telefono: +39 351 733 7278
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SAVE THE DATE ⦠LETāS BLUES! š¶
#blues #bluesmusic #bluesdance #dance #soul