💭❤️ Motivational Monday
“The thoughts you keep are the words you speak, and the words you speak become the outcome you seek.”
Think about that for a second.
Everything starts with a thought.
The thoughts you allow to live in your mind eventually come out of your mouth. And the words you constantly speak begin to shape your reality.
If your thoughts are negative, your words become negative.
If your words are negative, eventually your life starts moving in that direction.
But when your mind is filled with hope, love, faith, and purpose, your words begin to build instead of destroy. You start speaking life into yourself, your family, your future, and the people around you.
That’s why words matter.
A child who constantly hears “You can do it” grows different from a child who only hears criticism.
A family that speaks love heals differently than a family that only speaks anger.
The mind plants the seed.
The mouth waters it.
Life becomes the harvest.
So protect your thoughts. Speak with purpose. And don’t let temporary emotions create permanent damage with your words.
Because the life you want tomorrow starts with the thoughts you choose today.
Speak love.
Speak healing.
Speak growth.
And watch your family, your future, and your spirit begin to grow from it. ❤️
#MotivationalMonday #SpeakLife #MindsetMatters #FamilyLove #SouthCentralSoul PositiveEnergy WordsHavePowe
Vegas was a movie last Saturday 🎥🔥
Had an incredible time watching David Benavidez put on a show… undefeated, disciplined, and straight pressure all night 💪🏽🇲🇽
Nothing like fight night energy in Vegas, crowd going crazy, real champion vibes. Appreciate the love on the photo too, that meant a lot you have a Diehard fan famz🙌🏽
Salute to greatness… that’s how you represent 🥊💯 #VegasNights #FightNight #ChampionEnergy #Respect
❤️ Motivational Monday: Be Understood, Not Right
Most people walk into conflict trying to be right.
But when you focus on being right, you’re chasing a win — not a resolution. And in arguments, there are no real winners… only casualties.
Those casualties are the relationships around you — mother and daughter, father and son, brothers, sisters… the whole family feels it when pride gets louder than love.
Being right can make you stubborn.
It can keep you from saying, “I’m sorry,” or “Can you forgive me?”
And when that happens, families start to divide. People take sides, sometimes without even knowing the full story.
But when you choose to be understood, everything changes.
You’re not fighting anymore — you’re connecting.
You’re saying, “I’m human too.”
And that opens the door to clarity, healing, and real communication.
Don’t be afraid to turn around from a bad place.
Don’t be afraid to go to someone and say, “I’m sorry.”
That’s not weakness — that’s love.
Because in the end, being right might win the moment…
but being understood saves the relationship. ❤️
❤️ Motivational Monday: Be Understood, Not Right
Most people walk into conflict trying to be right.
But when you focus on being right, you’re chasing a win — not a resolution. And in arguments, there are no real winners… only casualties.
Those casualties are the relationships around you — mother and daughter, father and son, brothers, sisters… the whole family feels it when pride gets louder than love.
Being right can make you stubborn.
It can keep you from saying, “I’m sorry,” or “Can you forgive me?”
And when that happens, families start to divide. People take sides, sometimes without even knowing the full story.
But when you choose to be understood, everything changes.
You’re not fighting anymore — you’re connecting.
You’re saying, “I’m human too.”
And that opens the door to clarity, healing, and real communication.
Don’t be afraid to turn around from a bad place.
Don’t be afraid to go to someone and say, “I’m sorry.”
That’s not weakness — that’s love.
Because in the end, being right might win the moment…
but being understood saves the relationship. ❤️
❤️ Motivational Monday: Don’t Let the Past Become Your Future
The truth is, we’ve all been through something.
Drama, pain, abuse, conflict it’s part of the human experience.
But so is love.
So is joy.
So is deep, unconditional love and real happiness.
The problem comes when we choose to highlight only the negative.
When we dwell on what someone did to us…
When we blame others for where we are in life…
That’s when we miss what life is really about.
Ask yourself this:
Have you ever experienced real love?
I’m talking about unconditional love.
Because when you focus only on the pain, you start spreading that pain to others, especially your family. And before you know it, something that happened years ago becomes your everyday reality.
But here’s the truth…
The future is unwritten. It’s empty.
Five, ten years from now it’s yours to create.
So why hold on to something from 20 or 30 years ago that you can’t control? You’re a building small emotional prison.
Instead, ask yourself this:
Did those people bring more good into your life… or more harm?
If it was more harm, leave it in the past.
But if there was love, if there was good then go to them and
look them in the eyes and say, “I love you.”
That’s how you let go.
That’s how you heal.
That’s how families stay together.
Because unconditional love isn’t about being perfect, it’s about choosing love even after the pain.
So don’t give your future away to your past.
You can’t control what happened…
but you can control how you love, how you live, and how you move forward.
And when you choose love over the past,
you don’t just heal yourself ,you give your family a future worth fighting for. ❤️
❤️ Motivational Monday: Don’t Let the Past Become Your Future
The truth is, we’ve all been through something.
Drama, pain, abuse, conflict it’s part of the human experience.
But so is love.
So is joy.
So is deep, unconditional love and real happiness.
The problem comes when we choose to highlight only the negative.
When we dwell on what someone did to us…
When we blame others for where we are in life…
That’s when we miss what life is really about.
Ask yourself this:
Have you ever experienced real love?
I’m talking about unconditional love.
Because when you focus only on the pain, you start spreading that pain to others, especially your family. And before you know it, something that happened years ago becomes your everyday reality.
But here’s the truth…
The future is unwritten. It’s empty.
Five, ten years from now it’s yours to create.
So why hold on to something from 20 or 30 years ago that you can’t control? You are building your own small emotional prison.
Instead, ask yourself this:
Did those people bring more good into your life… or more harm?
If it was more harm, leave it in the past.
But if there was love, if there was good then go to them and
look them in the eyes and say, “I love you.”
That’s how you let go.
That’s how you heal.
That’s how families stay together.
Because unconditional love isn’t about being perfect, it’s about choosing love even after the pain.
So don’t give your future away to your past.
You can’t control what happened…
but you can control how you love, how you live, and how you move forward.
And when you choose love over the past,
you don’t just heal yourself ,you give your family a future worth fighting for. ❤️
“I’m excited to share that my friend, comedian Lahna Turner, has completed her documentary about our dear friend and comedian Ralphie May. Check out the film when it comes to a city near you.”
Here is the trailer:
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I had a great time, sharing the stage with the greatest of all time. Dougie Fresh. He put on a show that blew my mind. Help me understand the difference between performer and entertainer. Let’s go.
🔥 BIG BOY’S COMEDY FIESTA! 🌮
Cinco de Mayo is about to be incredible! 🌮🔥 We are bringing the heat and the laughs to Long Beach!
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Starring: George Lopez, Martin Moreno, Alfred Robles, Eric Blake & more!
🎺 Plus: LIVE Mariachi!
📍 Where: Long Beach Terrace Theater
🗓️ When: Tuesday, May 5th
You do not want to miss this lineup! 🔥 ⏰ Head straight to the link in @bigboy ’s bio to grab your tickets! 🎟️🏃♂️
Brought to YOU by @livelaevents ! 🎶 @pharoe13
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Come check out my boys @ericblake21 & @alfredrobles
Motivational Monday: Leadership Starts at Home ❤️
Leadership isn’t about control… it’s about connection.
It’s serving, guiding, listening, and loving—especially when no one’s watching.
In a strong family, everyone plays a role:
• Lead by example
• Keep structure
• Listen with heart
• Share wisdom
• Stay organized
• Serve with love
Real leadership is knowing when to lead and when to follow… when to speak and when to listen.
Love is the foundation.
And real leaders don’t take—they give.
Play your role with purpose and pride.
That’s how families grow… that’s how love leads ❤️
#MotivationalMonday #Leadership #FamilyFirst #LoveLeads #Growth Purpose
THIS FRIDAY
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Join us this Friday (4/10) at Oak Mountain Winery for another unforgettable night of HAIRlarious Comedy hosted by yours truly! 🎤🔥
We’ve got a killer lineup, including the hilarious Eric Blake hitting the stage—this is one show you don’t want to miss!
🍇 Great wine
🍽️ Delicious food
🤣 Non-stop laughs
Reserve your spot now!
📩 Message me directly or email [email protected]
#CrackUpNowGrinLater
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🤣LAUGH NOW, SMILE LATER😁
