From the girl whose plans got painfully disrupted on her path to medical school, to standing at Yale School of Medicine, one of the most prestigious and world renowned medical institutions in the world, as a speaker in front of an audience of physicians, residents, medical students, mental health professionals, researchers, and advocates.
I could not have written this story. But God did.
It has been one of the greatest honors of my life to present at The Women’s Mental Health Conference at Yale School of Medicine. I spoke on something close to my heart and my history.
From Life Support to Self Support: What the ICU Taught Me About Women’s Mental Health Recovery.
I drew from my clinical training in the ICU and my years of coaching women through their most vulnerable seasons, and I introduced the B.R.E.A.T.H.E. framework. A protocol I built for the woman who is functioning on the outside but drowning on the inside. The woman who has been surviving when she deserves to be sustained.
Someone cried during the breathwork. The feedback was top tier. And I thought to myself, this is exactly why.
And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose. Romans 8:28
My disruption was my direction. This is just the beginning 🤍 @yalewmhc
Hair: @mjraw__
#EleGoldB #Yale #womensmentalhealth #womeninmedicine #justbreathe
One day at a time.
That was the focal point of my speech at the Trauma to Triumph conference, but really a mantra I’ve held for the past decade of my life. I’m not always certain of where I’m going or what I’m doing but one thing I’m committed to in every area of my life, is taking it “one day at a time”.
Honored to be recognized by the United States Congress and the City of Houston for dedication to empowering individuals and communities. Thank you @neilcoaching
Hair 😍 @mjraw__
#EleGoldB #OneDayAtATime #PurposeDrivenLife
On this journey of becoming, here are some things I need you to hold very close to your heart.
Save the slide that speaks to you, share it with a girlfriend, and follow @elegoldb for more womanhood advice.
#EleGoldB #lifelessons #becomingher #youareworthy
April dump in May 🤭🌸
1. Pilates girlie down 🎀
2. Taro 🧋 the enemy of my waist line
3. My fine girl 😍💓
4. When did I become this person? Anyways Amala is always the order dear
5. Ms. Bobiana 😍
6. 😍🌸🩷
7. Live on @realandrawwithvalojeah
8. Love a cute din din set up
9. New levels in style 🥰🎁
10. Has to be my fave photo 💓💓 speaking at Yale
11. Atleast 10 flights this month ✈️
12. Ringfie 💍
13. Ladies in pink @yalewmhc
14. Exploring Connecticut
15. ☕️ after 🧋 baffles me each time but balance 🙈
16. You Are Gold at Yale #YAGaroundTheWorld
17. Childishhhh 🙈🤣
18. You will succeed, so go ✨🙇🏽♀️🙏🏼
#EleGoldB #LivingLife
We had an extensive discussion with @elegoldb on Real and Raw with Val Ojeah…
“No kissing. No sex?”… who agrees to that? 👀
Comment “Elegold” and we’ll send you the link to the full video in your DM.
Host: @thevalojeah
Production: @dejavuslens@dejavusbranding
#podcast #relatable #relationship #femininity #talkshow
Girl to girl: accept yourself 🌸
I’ve always been someone who pays attention. To people, to growth, to what’s possible. But for a long time, paying attention to other women made me feel like I needed to change something about myself to get their results.
Little did I know I was missing out on me. My uniqueness. My tailor made advantage.
I soon realized self acceptance is one of the major keys to becoming the best and highest version of yourself. My path is unique. My voice is amazing. My face, my story, everything about me was designed specifically and intentionally.
And so was yours.
God did not create a counterfeit.
You have no idea how lucky you are, to look the way you look and to be exactly the way you are. You are perfect just the way you are. 🤍
Say it out loud to yourself and leave a comment 👇🏽 “I accept myself”🤍
#EleGoldB #selfacceptance #selflove #becomingher #femininity
The work of transforming your mind to become the highest and best version of yourself is one of the greatest work you’d do in your life. So do it. You have only one life to live on this earth, don’t waste it. Align with God, get to work.
#EleGoldB #BecomingHer #Transformation #buildingconfidence
Bloom. Shine. Elevate. Together.
I never want any woman to ever see another woman, her life, her gifts, and her accomplishments and feel small ever again.
You are so uniquely designed that no one can ever do what you do, the way you do it. God was so intentional about that.
Every flower on this table is different, different color, different fragrance, different shape. And yet together they have made this entire space more beautiful than any single one of them could have done alone.
That is what women were designed to do.
Imagine the force of our collective bloom? 🤭💐 Bloom fully in your own lane, we need you there🤍
Tag your girl you’d love to see bloom continuously.
#EleGoldB #femininity #blooming #becomingher
“As the head of the Goldies association worldwide” 🥹🤍
Being with a partner who pushes you toward your highest potential and will never let you settle for less is an immense blessing. And I am so blessed.
A partner who will not compete with you, put you down, or shrink you but instead pull out the God-sized potential in you is truly everything and what I desire women to have.
My biggest supporter and very best friend flew all the way to New Haven to be there for his baby girl’s presentation at The Women’s Mental Health Conference at Yale School of Medicine. He was my personal content creator, photographer, PA, prayer partner, and cheerleader the entire weekend.
He carried all my books in a suitcase. Ran every errand. Had my makeup on standby just in case. Prayed with me before I walked on that stage. And cheered the loudest when it was over.
Behind every woman stepping into her purpose is someone who believed in her before the room did. I found mine. And I do not take that for granted for one single day.
My Tomiwa, thank you for always showing up. I love you. 🤍
#EleGoldB #AnthonysGift #marryyourbestfriend #softlove #godlymarriage