Eden and Jay Trevino

Date night, but make it Getty. A little red carpet moment for the Latin @glaad Honors with our 🔥🔥 family! more baddie content to come ✨ #latinhonors Brows @browsbyzoe Braids @jauzmine Fits @shopakira @revolve Guadalupe coat @equihua_official

I chose her long before the baby. Before the needle pokes, ultrasounds, and the hospital gowns. I chose her in the way she made me feel safe when the world felt loud. In the way her hands knew exactly how to hold mine…soft but steady. When it was time to bring our baby earthside, I watched her become even more of what I already knew she was, My anchor. My breath. My home. This kind of love isn’t loud. It’s the kind that shows up when it matters most. It’s the ultimate trust fall off a mountainside knowing she’s waiting at the bottom to catch me. And I thank the universe every day that I get to raise a child with her. Because the real magic isn’t just in becoming a mother. It’s in doing it with the RIGHT person. And baby, I picked right.

In Oaxaca it’s tradition to have a Calenda during a wedding celebration. In addition to music, monos that look like the couple, marmotas, and lots of mezcal pouring… We wanted to show what representation looks like. You CAN be traditional and Mexican and Queer, these things can coexist. 🏳️‍🌈🇲🇽 #oaxaca #oaxacawedding #loveislove #queerlove #sheswithher #latinalove #samesexwedding

One minute he was this tiny little potato sleeping on our chest… and somehow now he’s about to turn ONE. 🥹 You spend so long waiting for them to get here, and then suddenly they’re walking, laughing, showing you their little personality, and outgrowing versions of themselves before you even have time to fully hold onto them. We genuinely don’t know how we got here so fast. Motherhood has stretched us, softened us, exhausted us, healed parts of us, and given our lives a kind of love we didn’t even know existed. Watching Jayden grow has been the greatest honor of our lives… even if we’re emotionally unwell about how fast it’s happening. 😭 How is our baby turning 1 in just a couple days? And someone please tell us… when does time slow down? 🥺 asking for a friend.

Happy Mother’s Day 🩷 What an honor it was to paint these two incredible moms and their newborn. Hope you love it 🥹 @edenxjay

happy Mothers’ Day 🩵💐 for Mothers’ Day this year, I had the opportunity to paint these two beautiful moms with their newborn. “Jayden, Eden & Jay” oil on canvas This one brought me so much joy to create and it was an honor to paint them. 🩷 to all the moms out there absolutely killing it. The strength you embody inspires me every day.

There are some gifts that don’t just say “I love you”… they say I see you. ❤️ It’s honestly so hard to surprise your partner when you do life together 24/7… but somehow I actually pulled this one off 😭 This Mother’s Day, I wanted to give Jay something that captured one of the most beautiful chapters of our lives 🥹 those first few weeks with Jaden. This photo was taken when he was just 3 weeks old, and every time I look at it, I see her strength, softness, love, and the way she became home for both of us. Watching Jay become a mother has been one of the greatest honors. She is the strongest person I know and the most beautiful part of our family. A huge thank you to the incredibly talented queer artist @halietorris  for pouring so much heart into this piece and helping me create something so meaningful for Jay. And thank you to the amazing @dinorahavilaphoto for capturing the original photo that inspired it all. There’s something so special about queer artists helping tell queer love stories. Happy Mother’s Day! ❤️

AUSTIN TEXAS! Wedding Bells are ringing 🔔🏳️‍🌈 On May 8th, Preciosa Night is taking over @cheerupcharlies but this isn’t just another party! We’re partnering with our FAVE queer judge in Texas @denisecreateschange to offer FREE, in-person marriages for our community! AND Eden and I will be ur witnesses with confetti in hand! 🥹🫰🏽 In a state where being queer can still feel political just for existing… we’re choosing LOVE. Loudly. Publicly. Unapologetically. So whether you’ve been together for years, just know she’s your person, or want to reclaim your right to celebrate your love in a space that sees you, THIS is for you. Link in bio to reserve ur spot! YOU MUST REGISTER AHEAD OF TIME! Come get married. Come witness love. Come perrear with the baddies all night! May 8 | Austin, TX | Link in bio to sign up! LIMITED SPACES!

Healthy relationships aren’t perfect… they’re intentional. We’ve learned a lot being married for 6 years (holy moly! 😱) building a life together, and figuring things out in real time. Here are some of the questions we’ve asked in couples therapy through the years that actually helps. Be honest… what’s something about relationships you wish people talked about more?❤️

I’M OPENING FOR Ivy Queen 🥹😭 Two years ago, I started DJing, hoping I could carve out space for myself. I never could’ve imagined that the same queer girl from Koreatown, who was once sent away for being gay would be here… opening for La Caballota @ivyqueendiva This isn’t just a booking. It’s for my younger self. It’s for @preciosanight For every queer Latina who was told to shrink, to hide, or to be less. There are so few of us in these spaces… and somehow, we’re bringing our community, our culture, and puro perreo to that stage on June 21st at @themidwaysf And none of this would even exist without Eden, my wife, my partner in everything, who believed in me, pushed me, and built this life with me. Now we get to bring our son into this moment… and show him, in real time, just how powerful his moms are. And I couldn’t step into a moment like this without honoring where I started. When they asked who I wanted to share the stage with, there was only one answer: @missgracyd She taught me how to DJ, answered every question I had, and believed in me before I fully believed in myself. This is me giving her her flowers 💐 Fun fact: Eden and I walked into our wedding to “Yo Quiero Bailar.” That’s how deep this runs for me. Full circle doesn’t even begin to cover it!!🥹❤️ See you on that stage S.F. ❤️‍🔥

Becoming moms has scared us in ways we never expected… but it’s also been the most meaningful thing we’ve ever done. There are moments we sit back and realize…in the middle of the chaos, the learning, the doubt, we’re breaking cycles just by choosing to show up differently for him. And that’s not small. That’s everything. We don’t always know if we’re getting it right, but we do know he’s being raised with a kind of love we had to learn on our own. And that means something. Your messages, your support, the way you see our little family… it really does hold us up on the hard days. We just hope we’re doing right by him. 💛

Raise your hand if you don’t believe @dj.preciosa gave birth 10 months ago 🙋🏽‍♀️ If I wasn’t in the delivery room with her, I wouldn’t believe it either. Motherhood looks so different for everyone, but the way Jay was able to beast mode through pregnancy and jump straight into Boss mode needs to be studied. 🔥 The ugly truth to this trend is this system isn’t designed for our family to get the time needed to spend with with our little one so us and many others have to find a way to spread ourselves thinner than we ever thought possible to provide a safe and loving home. Things that physically demand two hands, we somehow have to figure out how to do with one hand. You have to give 100% with no sleep, no eating, and sometimes no shower but somehow we do it. Now 10 months on the other side motherhood has made us faster and stronger than ever… but out of necessity. We need a better system for families who want to “get back to business” to be an actual choice.