On June 29th I got to marry my favorite person in the whole world! The past 13 years with @ed4equity have been nothing short of magical, and to finally take this next step felt so perfect. The privilege of being able to have our wedding at our home was more than I could have ever hoped for or imagined. I’m so insanely grateful for the life we’ve built and continue to build together. To everyone who helped make it happen and made it so special, I wish there were words to convey my appreciation. Thank you from every ounce of myself. To everyone who accepted our invitation: thank you for creating such an energetic space of love that I still have a hard time believing even happened. To everyone we wish we could have invited: thank you for understanding that we did our best and having a wedding at home creates some space obstacles. The guest list is the hardest part of a wedding, period. We look forward to sharing other parts of our life with you. To everyone who got this far in my novel, thank you for understanding that there will be more posts documenting what perhaps was the best day of my life. Monks, I love you more than everything! 👨🏽🤝👨🏻
All photos by @corysherwoodphoto , our incredible photographer who effortlessly captured the relaxed, fun nature of us and our wedding. Thank you, Cory!
I couldn’t be happier 💖
Happiest of birthdays to my handsome husband, @paulydavid1 !
You have a huge heart and generous nature, and somehow you can still make me laugh 🤣🤣🤣.
You create community wherever you go, and people within your sphere can feel how special you are.
I am so grateful to see your creativity come to life in your delicious dishes and your beautiful interior designs.
I look forward to celebrating you all summer, and I look forward to more lifetimes of memories.
“I get the joy of rediscovering you,” and it’s my favorite thing.
Thank you for being my best friend and biggest cheerleader!
I love you more than math!!! 🤎🤎🤎
PS i’m crazy for you!
I thought of so many branding names for my new endeavors as a real estate agent, helping people create rental spaces, food and lifestyle content, and I just kept thinking about how much I love bringing the sense of “home” to myself and other people and kept coming back to the simple “Home With Pauly.” I thought about changing my social media name, but I’m not going to until paulydavid finally sees my message and hopefully lets me have the name. I’ve been ready to combine my love for entertainment, entertaining and real estate for a long time and passing the (hard) real estate exam finally gave me the push to do so. Thank you @househunterla for signing me and encouraging my creativity and sometimes unconventional approaches. Having you as our real estate agent for buying our own properties proved to me that we work really well together and inspired me to finally get the license. Thank for your immediate trust. I know your vetting process for agents is thorough and I’m honored to be part of the team. @ed4equity , thank you for helping me study even though you, incorrectly, said I was your worst student ever. I wouldn’t have passed without your help. Thank you, as always, for supporting all of my weird ideas.
I’m available to help you transform spaces, convert your spaces in to mid term rentals, and help you buy and sell properties!
Food and lifestyle content coming soon, including cooking, taking home-cooked pairings to open houses, room before and afters, and I’m open to suggestions.
🏡👨🏻🍳⚜️
#realtor #realestateagent #cooking #lifestyle #california
15 years ago today I went to Oil Can Harry’s in Studio City and my life changed forever. As I was singing a masterpiece rendition of “Viva Las Vegas” a cutie with a shaved head and the best smile ever caught my eye. We kept looking at each other and eventually I approached him (he will say he approached me, but be for real. Also neither of us are exactly shy, so…I’ll give him this for today) and gave him my number and our first date was the next day at Disneyland. I knew from the beginning there was something different and special about him and our connection. The past 15 years have been perfect. I’ve learned so much about how I want to be in relationships, how I want to be for myself and how I want to show up and be a good husband to Ed. All of this has made my life infinitely better and I’m so grateful. We even manage to find growth in times that make us uncomfortable. I say it all the time: I am the luckiest person in the world. Getting to share life with Ed only confirms that more. Our life is so charmed and SO FUN! I’m grateful that he laughs at my dumb jokes. I’m grateful that he makes endless puns. Endless. I love that we have a space where we can invite the people we love and we don’t need events to do it. I love that we got married at our home. Ed is unwaveringly supportive of all of the weird things I want to do. Some successful, some not, but always backed by his enthusiastic support. His dedication to making himself a better person every day is inspiring and so cool to watch in real time. His dedication to education, and helping to make the next generation stable and confident leaves me speechless every day. He’s way goofier than you might think and I LOVE that I get to see that silly side of him all the time.
Monks, I choose you today and every day, and this is the first 15 of many years. I love you more than EVERYTHING!
Happy Anniversary! 💗
One thing I love about doing life with @ed4equity is that we always verbally express our gratitude and how lucky we are in life all the time. Last night, we expressed how grateful we are that @ladygaga chose to write about us in her anthem “Born This Way.” Truthfully, we kept saying how incredible it is to be seeing our favorite artists in their prime. What a time 🏳️🌈
#ladygaga #mayhem #gay #lebanese #filipino
Had THE BEST time at the thrillifying @loungefly x @wickedmovie event!!! THANK YOU to @thatsheart for the invite, and as always, I had the best time with fellow Ozians @paulydavid1 & @whyidocardio .
#loungefly #wickedforgood
#wickedmovie
One year wedding anniversary! Our wedding date was a Saturday within the month of June, the last weekend of Pride month, and the anniversary of the Stonewall Riots .The past year has been another year full of love and fun with the Love of My Life, @ed4equity . I’m truly the luckiest person in the world to get to spend my life with the person I consider the best person I’ve ever met. I’m going to post wedding photos all week! I love you more than EVERYTHING, Monks! 💗
Wishing my perfect husband @ed4equity the happiest birthday ever! You continue to amaze and inspire me every day. I look up to you. I choose you and I love you so much. HAPPY BIRTHDAY MY LOVE! 💕
Happiest of birthdays to my HUSBAND, @paulydavid1 !!! You bring so much magic (er, Abracadabra) into my life.
Thank you for the joy you bring to so many and for all of our adventures, here and abroad! I had the best time at Hong Kong Disney, Shanghai Disney, and Tokyo Disney- because I got to spend them with you!
“Wicked” highlights “Dancing Through Life,” and you are truly “Singing Through Life.” Thank you for all of your sweet serenades.
Cheers to a thousand more birthdays together! I love you so much!
#BTE #husbands
Traveled halfway around the world to start off our honeymoon at the magical @hkdisneyland !
#honeymoon #lgbtq
#gaycouple #gayman #gaylife #gaylove #gaysian #gaycute #gaymen #gaystagram #instagay #gaylosangeles
#gaytravel #gayotter #gaylife