Meggan Roxanne

By now, I’m convinced that your soul knows when a season is coming to an end. I never thought I’d be starting over at 36. Grief, sadness, and depression held me for 1,706 days. Stagnation. Procrastination. Complete hibernation from the version of me I once knew. And yet, in the midst of all of that, my life’s work still stayed at the centre of my mind; every morning and every night. I poured my soul into 2025, and with intention, I did everything needed to reclaim my life. I survived the lowest of lows, and to be honest, rock bottom was the most freedom I’ve ever experienced. There’s no urgency, almost everyone has written you off, and essentially, it’s just you vs. you. The silence is loud. You’re faced with the reality of who you’ve become, and all you have is time, time to fix it. Through all of these experiences, I’ve gained a deeper insight into life and collected so much wisdom. I am of service, and I have so much to share. My spirit feels 100 years old. I spoke to my elder Millie last night. We’re both Scorpios. She’s turning 93 next week. She laughed when I told her that I feel like my life is over and reminded me that she has 56 years on me. She said, “Starting over is just an invitation to return to the root of who you’ve become.” It’s nothing to be ashamed of. If anything, it’s the complete opposite. What a privilege it is to be able to start over. We’ve been led to believe that starting over is synonymous with failure, 
and because of that, many of us carry such deep levels of shame that we’d rather stay in positions we’ve outgrown than embrace the vulnerability of rebuilding something new. So yeah, chipped nails, dry lips still showing up. To anyone reading this: life can be rebuilt after loss, after trauma, after convincing ourselves that we aren’t worthy of experiencing it to its fullest extent. Even if we’ve strayed light-years away from where we’re meant to be, we still have the ability to return home to ourselves. 🌻

This morning, my first paperback book, “How To Stop Breaking Your Own Heart” became a Sunday Times Best Seller. All praise to the Most High. This was such a transformative journey and I’m incredibly honoured for the opportunity to share my story. Thank you to @hayhouseuk and @walekalejaiye for absolutely everything. And Thank you to everyone who pre-ordered my book, none of this would’ve been possible without your support. —— How to Stop Breaking Your Own Heart Meg ❤️🌻

I smile; because I still have the ability to do so. Recently, life has transformed itself into a traumatic accumulation of losses and a magnitude of change. Since October 2020; 15 members of my soul community, including both of my parents, Wale’s Father and 3 Friends all transitioned into the spiritual realm, leaving me behind to adult without the adults who raised me. The hardest and most significant departure was my darling Mother, who passed away in March 2021 from Cancer. — I smile; because I still have the ability to do so, but mostly because I made it. They thought I would die without my Mother but instead I developed more love and resilience. I endured a lot of abuse in my childhood from family, which trickled its way into adulthood, resulting in my behaviours and habits being deep-rooted in unhealthy coping mechanisms and trauma. I’m no longer honouring their secrets or carrying their shame. — I was blessed and fortunate enough to have unconditional love for 31 years of my life from my Mother, but ever since she transitioned into the spiritual realm, I was abruptly made aware of how cold this world truly is. Which made the reasons behind why I started this platform more meaningful and intentional. I wanted to create a space online for everyone to experience the beauty of being poured into — with words of encouragement and love; an essence similar to my upbringing. I wanted to create a safe space. Community. Now that’s accomplished, I’m moving towards a higher vision, where I’ll be using my platforms to find healing resources for those with similar experiences, documenting my journey as I return home to myself and relaunching our Publishing House “The Good Publishing” connecting with writers who share a similar message. This is how you actively break generational curses. — I Give Thanks to absolutely everyone who nurtured me during this time. Thank you for your patience. INFINITE INFINITE INFINITE LOVE. Thank You. All praise to the Most High. ❤️ #JanettesChild

After the storm, everything you rebuild is done with intention, including your community. 🌻

How to move on after losing your mother? Find something new to pour your love into. . That was the advice I received from my godmother. At the time, it felt impossible. But over the past 4years, I’ve been trying my best to find things to love, until I realised the first thing I needed to focus on was myself. . Grief absolutely crippled me but being faced with the reality of how ugly family can be, really highlighted how much my mother protected me. . I realised that I spent a whole lifetime breaking my own heart due to the ricochet of the treatment I received growing up which resulted in me treating myself the same way. I wanted to stop that pattern. I wanted to break those chains. So I decided to do the one thing they always told me not to do: share my story. . I decided to put everything into a book and build a community of people who went through the same thing, to speak to them and let them know that even though people around you may have spent years trying to break your heart, and even though you may have normalised that behaviour and ended up breaking your own heart, you can still return home to yourself. . Because there is a beautiful life out there, a life that needs to be lived, that you have a right to pursue. And the quicker you fix your broken heart, the quicker you get to enjoy this human experience. . I learned a lot about forgiveness. I learned how to filter my community. I learned how to walk away from people I never thought I would have to walk away from and still have peace in my heart. I learned how to handle my pain. . I learned how to love myself again and how much it takes. The routines, the new habits, the lifestyle changes, everything you have to rebuild when you lose your rock. . So, if anyone reading this has lost a parent, pour your love into something else. The love your parent(s) left behind for you has manifested into a seed. You need to bury it, take care of it, and allow that seed to grow. That’s how you keep them alive. . My mother always used to say, “People only die when you stop talking about them” and 65k have read her name. . Thank you to everyone who brought a copy of my book and made this possible. 🌻

Absolutely nothing prepares you for losing a parent. It’s possibly the most important shift and transition you’ll ever experience in this life. The hardest moments are the days that follow, when the world you’ve spent your whole life building suddenly shatters. Everything disappears, and you realise that the only things left to hold onto are the sentimentals. Small things, like a piece of their clothing, or their favourite mug in the kitchen. Just their scent alone has the power to resurface so many feelings! If you’re currently preparing to lose a parent, my advice is this: record everything. Capture the moments. Record their laugh, their stories, their voice. Ask them to create messages for your future milestones. Make sure that even if they’re no longer physically present, they’ve left behind something that gives you something to look forward to. One day, those small videos will mean everything. This is for anyone who is grieving, or watching someone they love slip away. 💔 Preserve the love. It’s what keeps you going. . . Clip taken from my recent conversation with @jayshetty on the On Purpose Podcast — Thanking @jayshetty for creating a space where I can freely talk about grief and the process of regaining a life afterwards. Check out the full episode on YouTube 🌻

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Comment “Meggan” below and we’ll DM you the link to watch this episode 🚀 In the latest episode of Ladies Who Launch, Rochelle Humes chats with Meggan Roxanne (@earthtoroxanne ) the visionary behind @thegoodquote 🌟 What started as a Tumblr blog, during a tough time in 2010, has grown into a global community with over 24 million followers. 🌍 Meggan shares how she turned her passion for motivational quotes into a thriving business, the challenges she’s faced, the importance of balancing mental health with entrepreneurship, and loads more. Don’t miss this inspiring convo packed with insights on resilience, authenticity, and building connections! 💡✨

How do you start over? Let it fall apart.

My mother’s last wishes were for me to care for her father, my grandfather, and to ensure he wasn’t alone when it was time for him to transition. The villain of the family. The man I wrote about in the opening chapter of my book, “How to Stop Breaking Your Own Heart,” and later, where I share a story about forgiveness and my mother’s journey to reconnecting with her father. My first heartbreak. The source of pain for my family for over 60 years. A request I never understood, but knowing my mum, she had her reasons. So, I continued to trust her judgment in the three years since she passed away and cared for my grandfather. This weekend, I buried my grandfather, closed a chapter, and broke a generational curse. Amidst all of this, I realized my mother’s last lesson for me was to understand and experience, for myself, the importance of forgiveness. During this three-year process, I had no choice but to put my mental health first, regardless of who that offended. Many advised me to walk away and abandon my mother’s last request, underestimating that I live by a code and that my loyalty stretches far beyond the grave for those I cherish. Some say I’m stubborn because I cannot be bought, persuaded, or controlled. But I know deep down, if I’ve been called to do something, then I will honor that and move accordingly until it is done. In my book, I spoke about my mum reclaiming her life at the age of 60. I managed to do it by 34. My children will never have to walk this path. This is what breaking generational curses looks like, and who feels it knows it. Thank you to everyone who was patient with me during these years. I’ve been operating at 10% of my potential for over a decade and still managed to build a community of 24 million people and become a Sunday Times Best Selling Author. I’m excited to see how life changes now that I can pour 100% of my energy back into myself — in honour of my Mum and the years she lost. Give thanks for freedom. 🙂 I pray, that if my Grandfathers soul has the opportunity to experience this life again, I hope he chooses to live in peace instead of pain. He deserves to know what that feels like too. 🌻 #breakinggenerationalcurses

“Pre-order ‘How To Stop Breaking Your Own Heart’ now — out June 24, 2024. — What does a better you look like? I remember being asked this question in therapy, and honestly, it didn’t take me long to respond. It’s easy to envision the perfect version of ourselves, a reality in which we live in freedom, beyond the constraints of what we subject ourselves to daily. I listed a bunch of things I would implement into my days to make them feel more fulfilled and productive, including all the qualities I would possess in order to have the ability to achieve these things. My therapist responded with questions about my value system and my commitments to myself; it quickly became apparent that I wasn’t operating at my best, or even enough, to put these things into practice and bring them into my actual reality. So, what was the issue? My foundations. I was still operating from a place of lack, from a mindset where I struggled to believe in myself or acknowledge my value. We have been led to believe that imposter syndrome is an individual issue, that only weak-minded people experience, when in fact, each and every one of us struggles with it. The only difference is, some people acknowledge what’s being said internally and choose to push past it, while others unfortunately allow themselves to get sucked into the lies and succumb. My therapist made a point. He told me, “Your foundations are your grounds, your earth, your mud, your beginning. How can you expect anything to flourish in bad soil? Our foundations have to be set at a standard before anything has the chance to grow. We need to focus on developing your soil first and worry about planting seeds later.” In my book, I talk about my journey to returning home to myself, the ways in which I had to break cycles, and the routes I took to find my way back. Thank you in advance to everyone who has supported my work and placed an order. It’s currently available for pre-order worldwide. Published by @hayhouseuk 🌻