Now that my FMLA time for work has been officially approved I feel comfortable fully announcing that I AM GETTING TOP SURGERY!!! I’m unbelievably nervous and excited and it still doesn’t feel real yet. This does mean I’m taking some time away from drag, which is a bummer, but you’ll have at least 3 more chances to see me before then! The first is obviously @the.walk.of.fame (ticket link in bio or search Walk of Fame on Eventbrite), and I’ll have 2 more shows at the end of January to announce very soon! I’ll take support while I am down and out in any way you’re able to help. I appreciate you all and thank you for celebrating with me 🍆💞
Apparently haven’t dropped a photo dump since October bc it’s been an absolute shit show, so here is one from my birthday til like mid-November. Just doing my best ❤️
2 years without you here, but you always give me signs and remind me of your presence in my life in the times I need it most. Thank you for being a large part of who I am today and why I keep going. I love you and miss you forever 💛💚
It’s my 4 year transiversary today and I almost forgot bc life has been really insane lately. Transitioning remains one of the best decisions I’ve ever made and nothing will stop me from shouting it from the rooftops 🏳️⚧️
If you wanna celebrate with me, come out to my drag show tomorrow night and throw me a tip and a donation to the food drive. More information on my drag insta @dickwielderdrag 💞
Another year, another successful Cravesgiving with these two 💞 (for those who are new, Cravesgiving is the day before thanksgiving where we get White Castle together and ruin our stomachs LMAO this is year 13 or so???)
What are you thankful for, and what do you crave?
I haven’t done a photo dump in a while, so here’s some of what I’ve been up to since I last posted one lol. Another might follow if I have enough photos 💖
Happy Birthday, my sunny boy ☀️ things have changed so much since you’ve been gone and I would give anything to just talk to you again. You should be celebrating with us this weekend and my heart breaks every day that you’re not here to do so.
The more time that passes since he passed the more I feel like my brain is just forgetting stuff, and desperately grasping for any piece of what’s left of him. I know this is grief, this is how it works, but fuck dude the fact that I’m gonna live the rest of my life with this hole in my chest, and if I outlive other loved ones there will be more holes… that’s hard to sit with. It’s just loss and loss and loss, and part of me is like, for what? The other part knows for what- but it feels bad that I have to go through this to appreciate the good, and that good may not stick around for as long as I want it to… it’s just hard. Today is hard.
Happy Pride Month, if you ever deadnamed me or used the wrong pronouns and didn’t immediately correct yourself or you gave a long apology about how hard it is for you to remember, you owe me $20.
Despite the parts of my life that feel really difficult and impossible right now, I have to say that the parts that are good are really really good. The cherry on top was winning a drag competition on the same day of my legal name change anniversary, who could ask for more?
