feels absolutely surreal to be posting this but⌠I wrote a book and itâs coming out in a few months time!!! itâs called:
â¤ď¸âđĽ ITâS NOT LOVE, ACTUALLY â¤ď¸âđĽ
and itâs all about encouraging women to stop settling for shitty relationships and embrace the life and love they deserve.
I spent most of my early dating life trying to be the âcoolâ girl. shrinking myself, settling for low-effort guys and feeling like I was too much. if you can relate (or know someone who does) this book is for you. itâs the dating bible i wish I had growing up. thereâs lots of vulnerable personal stories, research, expert advice and hard truths unpacking how the patriarchy has shaped our expectations around love, sex and relationships, so we can finally unlearn all that bullshit.
Available for pre-order now in paperback, ebook and audio. Link in bio! You can find it in-stores and online from April 28.
đˇ: @simon.fitzpatrick_
1 week until my debut book Itâs Not Love, Actually is officially out in the world đâ¤ď¸âđĽ
hereâs some early reviews if you wanna know what youâre in for when you read it (maybe some tears)
non-fiction pick of the week !!!!!!!!!
thank you so much for this review @theageaustralia and @sydneymorningherald . completely agree itâs not just a book for women, itâs for everyone đŤśâ¤ď¸âđĽ
ahhhhhh the audio book of Itâs Not Love, Actually is @spotifyaunz editor pick of the month đâ¤ď¸âđĽ
AND @applebook what to read this month! So grateful and thank you to everyone whoâs listening đŤśâ¨
â¨GIVEAWAYâ¨
To celebrate the release of my new book Itâs Not Love, Actually, Iâve partnered with W Hotels to gift three winners the ultimate winter reset - a luxe stay, proper switch-off time, and a really good book.
WHAT YOU WIN (Sydney, Melbourne or Brisbane):
â¤ď¸âđĽÂ A signed copy of my new book Itâs Not Love, Actuallyâ¨â¤ď¸âđĽÂ Overnight stay for 2 at W Brisbane, W Sydney or W Melbourneâ¨â¤ď¸âđĽBreakfast for 2 + $100 food & beverage creditâ¨â¤ď¸âđĽÂ $250 worth of wellness ritual giftsâ¨â¤ď¸âđĽValet parking (Brisbane & Melbourne only)â¨
Each prize pack is worth of $1000!
HOW TO ENTER:
1. Take a photo with my book đ
2. Post it + tag me
3. Tag and follow the W Hotel youâd like to stay at:â¨@wbrisbane OR wsydney OR @wmelbourne
(choose your dream stay â no need to tag all three)
Winners will be drawn by each hotel, so make sure youâve tagged the one you actually want đ
this is your sign đâ¨book the stay. read the book. raise your standards.
T&Cs:
â¨Winners drawn at random by each W Hotel. Prize valid SundayâThursday only (subject to availability & blackout dates). Valet parking included at W Brisbane & W Melbourne only. Food & beverage credit applied to booking. Must be following the selected hotelâs Instagram account to be eligible.
Come along for a night of conversation and celebration of award-winning broadcaster Dee Salminâs debut book, âItâs Not Love, Actuallyâ
Joining Dee in conversation on the night is local creative and media powerhouse Sophie Ferguson, as they chat all things books, love, life and beyond.
Copies of Itâs Not Love, Actually will be available to purchase on the night, with a book signing by Dee to follow the event.
The event is free, but capacity is limited, so make sure to grab a ticket!
đPlanet Books, Mt Lawley
đ Thursday, 4th June, 6:30pm
đď¸ Tickets via Eventbrite (link in bio)
Itâs Not Love, Actually is also an audio book!!! it took over four days to record and this was the word that nearly killed me.
You can listen on: Spotify, Audible, Apple Books, Google, Kobo and Libro.FM
words cannot describe how obsessed with this suit I am @enolanmelbourne !!!! the perfect outfit for my @melbwritersfest debut chatting all things feminism, sex, love and power. I felt fkn powerful!!
đˇ @simon.fitzpatrick_
what a week!!!!!! canât believe how quickly people are reading Itâs Not Love, Actually! thank you so much for all your dms, they seriously mean the world! đâ¤ď¸âđĽâ¨