I’m Deborah, and I’m the kind of person who gets emotional at other people’s weddings. Every time. 😅
If you’re new here, hey, here’s a little about me.
I sing and play guitar, and I love wedding music that feels personal, tasteful and right for the moment. Soft and emotional during the ceremony, lighter and more alive as the day unfolds.
I’m an Austria-based wedding singer and guitarist, and I travel across Europe for destination weddings. 🌍
To me, there’s more to wedding music than just a pretty voice. It’s about supporting the moment instead of performing over it. It’s pacing, transitions, and being present enough to notice what the room needs.
I’m half Mexican and sing in German, English, Spanish and Italian, which is probably why I’ve always felt especially at home at weddings where different cultures, languages and people come together. 🫂
Slide 6 is a little throwback to national TV. Such a special chapter, but weddings are where I learned what matters most. Timing, sensitivity and a real feel for the room.
If you’re new here, say hey in the comments. Where are you planning your day, Austria or somewhere else in Europe? 🤍
#weddingsinger #weddingceremonymusic #liveweddingmusic #austriawedding #destinationwedding
Videos:
First wedding @prontolux_weddings
Italy wedding and last couple frame @ver.filmt
Photos:
slide 2 & 5: @_eingerahmt__
slide 3: @katrin_zingl_memories
slide 4: @ivoryrose.photography
slide 7: @astridneumannwedding
I can talk about what I do all day, but honestly, this means more. 🤍
These are voices from the couples themselves. Little clips, real reactions, and a few sentences that stayed with me.
If you’re new here and you’re trying to figure out who you’d trust with the soundtrack of your day, start here.
slide 1: @sotiris_tsakanikas
slide 2: @ver.filmt
slide 3: @simoncasetti
slide 4: @ver.filmt
slide 5: @simoncasetti
slide 6: @prontolux_weddings
slide 7: @astridneumannwedding
#weddingtestimonials #weddingsinger #liveweddingmusic #weddingceremonymusic
If you’re wondering how I can support your wedding day with live music, here’s what I offer.
Ceremony
You choose your key songs for the moments that really matter (most couples pick four). I take care of the flow in between, including a soft instrumental layer while you sign, so nothing feels rushed or broken up.
Cocktail hour
This is where the day starts to loosen up. I’ll keep it light and elegant, and I shape the set around your taste and your guests, so it feels like a natural next chapter after the ceremony.
Dinner
A lot of couples don’t expect how much live music can change dinner. It’s subtle, but it makes the whole evening feel more intentional, especially through transitions and the in-between moments.
First dance
If you’d like, I’ll accompany your first dance and I can also provide a short recording so you can practise beforehand. After that, I hand over smoothly to your DJ or band.
DM me your date + venue, and I’ll let you know what’s still available.
Ceremony & Cocktail hour: @ver.filmt
Reception & First Dance: @simoncasetti@averybelovedwedding
#liveweddingmusic #weddingsinger #weddingceremonymusic #destinationweddingmusic
First wedding of the season is in the books.
Driving home, full and empty at the same time. Holding someone else's biggest day takes something out of you. It also gives back more than I know how to explain.
I love this. 🤍
"No one else can feel it for you." That line gets me every time. 🤍
I can choose the right song, read the energy, find the moment. But the feeling? That part is entirely yours. And honestly, I love that. It means every cocktail hour is different — because every couple is different.
This one was at Palais Daun Kinsky in Vienna. Easy and festive, exactly what it needed to be.
If you're planning your wedding and looking for music that actually fits your day, my First Note Call is the place to start. Link in bio.
Videography: @ver.filmt
Location: @palaiseventsvienna
#weddingmusic #cocktailhour #viennawedding
Sometimes a song choice has nothing to do with the song.
A bride once told me during our first call that she wanted a very specific song for her entrance. Her dad had made a video for her — clips from her childhood, her teenage years — and that song was playing throughout.
She hadn't told her parents what she'd chosen. It was her surprise to them on the day.
I think about that moment a lot. The music started, and her mum and dad heard it before they even saw her.
Those are the moments I have to really hold it together. Everyone else is already crying — and honestly, so am I, just very quietly. 🥹
This is why I ask the questions I ask.
Because sometimes the most important thing about a song isn't how it sounds. It's what it carries.
If you'd like to share your story with me — I'd love to hear it.
Link in bio.
Photography: @katrin_zingl_memories
Location: @aiolaimschloss
#weddingceremony #weddingsingeraustria #destinationweddingeurope
Five things I'd want you to know about wedding music — before the planning gets overwhelming.
I've been doing this for a while now. And there are a few things that come up again and again, with almost every couple I work with. So I wrote them down.
Swipe through — and save this for when you need it. 🤍
If you'd like to talk through what this could look like for your day — link in bio.
Photography: @_eingerahmt__
#weddingplanning #weddingmusicplanning #ceremonymusic
The one about what wedding music can actually do — beyond the song list. What the ceremony is really made of. How the afternoon wants to feel. The questions worth sitting with before any planning begins. So I started writing it all down.
This is edition 3 of my wedding music guide — and it's a little emotional to hold it. I was 21 when I started doing this full-time as a wedding singer. And looking at how these guides have changed over the years, I can see how much I have too. Not just the design or the words — the thinking behind it. What I pay attention to, what I know matters, what I've stopped overexplaining. This one finally feels like where I actually am.
Every couple I work with receives it after booking. What I love most: after every chapter, there's a page with just one question. Not a form, not a task. Something worth sitting with together — about how you want your ceremony to feel, what matters to you, what you'd rather not hear. The kind of things that are easy to skip over when you're deep in logistics, but make all the difference when we finally sit down together.
That's the moment I look forward to most. When a couple comes in knowing what they want their day to feel like — not just which songs, but the mood, the pace, the little things that make it entirely theirs. That's when it stops feeling like preparation and starts feeling like it's really happening.
If you'd like to work together — I'd love to hear about your day. 🤍
Link in bio.
Cover Photo: @katrin_zingl_memories
#weddingceremonymusic #destinationweddingeurope #luxuryweddingsinger
I get a little nervous before every entrance.
Not in a bad way — more like the kind of quiet before something that actually matters. The entrance is usually the most emotionally charged moment of the entire day, and I feel that every time. 🤍
But the moment I see my couples walking down the aisle, I forget about everything else. This time it was A&T at a rustic estate in Friuli — guests who'd travelled from different corners of the world, already relaxed in that particular way people are when they're somewhere beautiful and far from home.
And writing this I can't wait for my wedding season to start soon. 🥹
If your wedding is in Europe and you're still looking for live music — request availability via the link in my bio. 🤍
Snippets from the original trailer by @ver.filmt — their full edit will give you goosebumps.
Location: @castellodibuttrio_official
Wedding Planning: @eternal_celebration
Videography: @ver.filmt
Florals: @sonnenblumeklagenfurt
Styling: @xenixs_mua@blbsmanagement
Celebrant: @herzmitseele.freierede
#italydestinationwedding #liveweddingmusic #bridetobe2026
A&T chose a castle in Italy for their wedding, captivated by its historic charm and timeless elegance. 🤍
The wedding day began leisurely at the pool, allowing A&T and their closest family to relax and enjoy the warm Italian sun before the celebrations unfolded.
The ceremony took place in the castle’s lush garden, where colorful flowers created a truly romantic atmosphere. The reception featured exquisite Italian delicacies and lively music, all with breathtaking views over the surrounding vineyards. As evening fell, their guests gathered in the courtyard for a magical dinner under a canopy of twinkling fairy lights.✨
The luxurious castle accommodations offered both comfort and style, perfectly complementing the castle’s historic surroundings and creating an unforgettable experience for everyone. 🏰
#italywedding #castlewedding #weddingplanning #destinationweddingplanning #weddingitaly
Photography @alen_karupovic
Celebrant @herzmitseele.freierede
Live music @deborahposadaswedding
Lights @italproservice
