Life isn’t always easy, there are times we’re it’s hard beyond anyone’s control. We go through heartache, we go through pain, we go through challenges we don’t think we can ever get past.
We suffer injuries, we get sick, we lose the people we love.
The world can be so cruel.
But we need to rise up, show our strength to the ones we love, be there when they need us, hold our heads up high, because THE PAIN WE FEEL TODAY, WILL BE THE STRENGTH YOU FEEL TOMORROW. ❤️
7 SIMPLE STEPS TO GIVING LESS FUX
Unlock the Secret to True Freedom
Hey Daniel Cooper,
Ever find yourself weighed down by others’ opinions?
It’s time to break free! Here are 7 liberating tips to help you care less about what others think and embrace your true self...
1. Reflect on Whose Opinions Truly Matter: Often, we give too much power to voices that don’t significantly impact our lives. Focus on the opinions of those who truly care about you or have the life that you desire.
2. Embrace Your Uniqueness: Remember, what makes you different is what makes you special. Cherish your uniqueness and let your true self shine. Don’t listen to the critics
3. Practice Self-Acceptance: Be kind to yourself. Accepting your flaws and strengths alike is the first step to becoming immune to external judgments. How can someone offend you when you simply don’t give a f*ck?
4. Set Your Personal Goals and Values: Define what’s important to you, not what others expect of you. Align your actions with your personal values and goals.
5. Understand You Can’t Please Everyone: It’s an impossible task to make everyone like you. Focus on pleasing yourself first. People pleasing is the fastest way to personal destruction.
6. Take Risks and Make Mistakes: Don’t be afraid to step out of your comfort zone. Mistakes are proof that you’re trying and learning. Fail more & fail quicker.
7. Seek Constructive Feedback, Not Approval: There’s a difference between constructive criticism that helps you grow and seeking approval. Embrace the former. You don’t need approval from anyone if what you’re wanting to do aligns with your values.
All the best Coops,
Kris
Zro Fux
P.S. Remember, what others think of you is none of your business. It’s your life, your rules.... you’re writing the script 🚀
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The “Let Them” theory?
I’ll tell you the more I grow the more I am okay with accepting the “Let Them” in my own life and relationships. Even family can mistreat and disrespect you.
This is something that took me a very long time to learn. I used to tolerate a lot because I didn’t want to lose people. I learned the hard way if they were really my people they would never treat me like that. Don’t make the mistake of being so understanding and forgiving that you overlook the fact that you’re being repeatedly disrespected.
Let them be upset.
Let them judge you.
Let them misunderstand you.
Let them gossip about you,
Let them ignore you.
Let them be “right.”
Let them doubt you.
Let them not like you.
Let them not speak to you.
Let them run your name in the ground.
Let them make you out to be the villain.
Whatever it is that people want to say about you, let them!
Kindly step aside and LET THEM.
The hard truth is they know how much they are hurting you. They just simply don’t care. They did it knowing it could cause them to lose you. They did it anyway. People that love you care about how they make you feel.
The end.
Let them go.
There will be people that would rather lose you than be honest about what they’ve done to you. Let them go.
The lack of respect was the closure. The lack of apology was the closure. The lack of care was the closure. The lack of acountability was the closure. The lack of honestly was the closure. Let them go.
It’s taken me a long time to get here. Sleepless nights, countless tears, managing a range of emotions filled with anger, disappointment, confusion and deep hurt. Lots of self reflection, self preservation, deep prayer and seeking wisdom from those much wiser than me.
If you are struggling with this please know you are not alone. We will never understand why hurt people hurt people. But we can do the hard work to grow ourselves. Because healed people do in fact heal people.
Don’t you dare let them steal your joy.
Don’t you dare let them steal your light.
Don’t you dare let them steal your peace.
You are in control of that.
And Let them love you, who are supposed to love you. 🫶🏻 #lethem #yolo #liveyalife❤️
Happy 39th birthday to this Hobbit, this leprechaun, this midget, this little shit, Diabetus 2.0 have an absolute amazing day, thanks for all the laughs and all the fun times, now that you have the overseas travel bug, let’s book another. Oh yeah thanks for all the cooking lol 😂 all the best. 🖤❤️🖤
Congratulations to the gorgeous couple on your absolutely beautiful wedding, so blessed and honored to be able to join you guys on such a wonderful day. Much love ❤️ to you both xox
