The girl on the left
Was very weak ..low self esteem
hurt, disempower, and traumatize
Over time, emotional & physical abuse wore down my self-worth, confidence, and my ..mental and emotional strength
For many years .. she was in a very dark place and no one knew it …in this time in her life …. She thought no one would want me .. so she did any and everything to keep him … even through all the embarrassment & humiliation
She thought …she thought she was in love with her best friend.. whole time … she was in love with a monster
And she didn’t love myself
The woman on the right
She appreciate her strengths and accept her flaws, leading to a more positive self-image .. prioritizing self-care and setting boundaries…. She now puts herself first
This includes making time to care for myself , physically, mentally, and emotionally. not sacrificing what i need to do to care for myself … in place of doing things for others…she wants more for herself … she is a lil scared .. but not nothing she can handle ..she goes in and out at times .. but that’s to be expected.. when she been manipulated for 20+years
She see the light very clear.. it took a while .. but she see it … this is my truth and I’m walking in it 🫶🏽💪🏽
It’s nothing to joke about … you can never tell someone .. what to do .. when u not in it
What an honor it was to have been in a room filled with some pretty amazing people! I’m forever grateful! One day my children will look back and show their children that their Mother was fortunate to have met the 46th POTUS Joe Biden and VP Kamala Harris, soon to be the next & 1ST FEMALE PRESIDENT OF THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA what an honor and a privilege.
LET’S GO Vice President Harris!!!!! 💪🏽 🇺🇸 💙
HAPPY DEBATE NIGHT‼️
#kamalaharris #harriswalz2024
I’m literally crying writing this post
I just want Vegaz & Navada to proud of me
This is History ‼️
#vote
My website for I’m Really HER is DONE. 🥹💗
I had my meeting for the final touches, and I just sat back like… wow. I really did this.
To understand why this means so much to me, you’d have to understand where this came from.
There was a time in my life when I was afraid to even speak.
Imagine being in a heated argument with someone standing so close in your face you could feel their breath hitting your skin… yelling louder and louder… so aggressive your whole body freezes.
Your heart racing.
Your hands shaking.
Tears in your eyes.
Your throat closing up.
And they’re screaming, “TALK! SAY SOMETHING! WHAT THE F*CK ARE YOU, MUTE?!”
Meanwhile, in your mind, you are talking.
You’re screaming.
You’re defending yourself.
You have so much to say…
…but nothing comes out.
That kind of fear changes you.
That kind of trauma teaches you to shrink, silence yourself, and bottle everything up because speaking never felt safe.
And over time, when someone keeps telling you you’re not smart, that something is wrong with you, you start believing it.
Truth is… I already had insecurities about reading and writing, so hearing those words over and over made me really think maybe I was dumb.
But then I picked up a journal…
And everything changed.
The same thing I thought I wasn’t good at became the very thing that helped save me.
Writing helped me organize my thoughts.
Writing gave me peace.
Writing helped me heal.
Writing helped educate me.
Writing built my confidence.
Writing gave me my voice back.
I realized I was never dumb.
I was hurt.
I was silenced.
I was surviving.
So I’m Really HER is so much bigger than just a journal to me.
This is healing.
This is freedom.
This is taking my power back.
And if this journal helped me find myself again… I KNOW it’s going to help so many other women too. 💗✨
For every woman who has ever felt silenced, broken, or made to feel small…
Sis, your voice matters.
Drop those tears on that paper 😢😍💪🏽
Turn your pain into purpose
Welcome to I’m Really HER. 💕
BIZZACKKKK 💪🏽
Orders are going out! Sorry for the delay….y’all know I’m a one-woman army over here, but I’m working!
Please check your emails for tracking. If you received a tracking number, your order went out today.
I’m still working on more orders now… y’all sold me OUT of those bobs 🤦🏽♀️ I appreciate all the love and support more than y’all know! Pinky promise, I’m moving as fast as I can. 💕
I’m super excited … about this .. it’s happening .. I DID IT 💪🏽🫶🏽
I’m REALLY HER is bigger than just a journal and a mug... this is a movement.
What started as
something personal, something created from pain, healing, growth, and choosing ME... is turning into something so much bigger. This is just the beginning. I have so much more in store for y’all.
More products. More
• inspiration. More empowerment. More healing. More CRAZY magic. •
I’m building a brand, a lifestyle, and a safe space for women to remember exactly who the FU$K U are
Stay tuned... because baby, we just getting started. #ImReallyHer
So I need help finding a very nice place to do my Signing
If any suggestions.. please drop it below …
