Oh what a night 😍
Shoutout to @mossvenice and @westsidesounds_la for having me, and to the amazing band and all who came out 😍 @mixedbymitch_ crushed this mix!
#rnb #independentartist #livemusic #losangeles #singersongwriter
*SPECIAL PREMIER*
The world desperately needs integrated masculine leadership right now
There are so many good men suffering in silence
“Trying” to be good.
“Trying” to be safe.
“Trying” to help the feminine feel safe.
“Trying” to do it right.
But trying is a control state.
It’s in the head.
Not in the heart.
Not in faith.
Not in the body.
Not in the truth.
So many men get trapped in the pendulum swing
From being careless to being careful
Still missing the mark: CARING
Carelessness is where dis-integrated masculinity lives.
Where out-of-integrity actions, lack of empathy, destructive anger, and harm occur.
When a man is careless, life and his own internal compass -will call him back
Back into truth
Back into integrity
Back into alignment
But here’s the trap:
If we only respond with justice, apology, or behavior correction…
Without compassion
Without healing..
the shadow of carelessness often flips into its opposite shadow :
“Carefulness”
Not healing
Not power
Just fear disguised as virtue
Another form of control
Suppressing instead of integrating
Shrinking instead of embodying
This is Mr. Nice Guy
What transforms a man’s fire isn’t suppression or control..
It’s integration through the heart.
That’s where fire becomes love.
That’s where power becomes trustable.
Without the heart, a man will fear his own power
And if he fears his fire, he’ll fear the feminine too.
The mind sees “toxic masculinity.”
While Compassion sees a scared little boy who never felt safe, seen & empowered in his feelings.
Caring carries real leadership.
It carries protection.
It carries provision.
It is God-led.
A Caring man is both kind and not to be fucked with!
We don’t need more good men.
We need more God Men
Integrated. Heart centered. Grounded. Embodied men. Led by love and the fire of truth! Anchored in God!
If this spoken word sparks something in you I have something for you:
“DECODING MR NICE GUY”
A free masculinity masterclass where I break down the bars and unpack the codes
Comment’MRNICEGUY’ to watch now
Shot & edited by @channingross
Co creative directors me , @rabethreethirtythree@chelseyjohuntsman
Special thx to my boo for making this dream come true!
Let’s face it, we haven’t seen my face at a rhythm and pace that resonates. After so long, I’m here to satiate with a full plate of face to face ::) 📸: @casey_winkleman
The BitGS performance on 8/22 was such a Dream, I can’t wait to share the live footage properly edited by 🎥🧙🏿♂️@channingross — but until then, worth revisiting his lil teaser, updated with infoz about the digital and physical release. Endless thanks to everyone for the ongoing support, with love -C
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