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@carpedmdating

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A new year, a happy community, and real connections in the making. ✨ This is what we love to see—smiles, ease, and people genuinely enjoying being together. Dating doesn’t have to be draining. It can be intentional, joyful, and rooted in community. Here’s to more moments like this in 2026! Wishing you a very happy New Year filled with laughter, alignment, and love that feels good. Warmly, Your CarpeDM Team šŸ’› #BlackLove #BlackDating #BlackSingles #DatingWithIntention #BlackCommunity
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4 months ago
🌟 Memories from 2024 🌟 Our community came together for incredible events filled with smiles, joy, and a shared mission to spread love. ā¤ļø As we look back at these unforgettable moments, we’re even more excited about what’s to come in 2025! šŸ’Œ Stay tuned for the 2025 lineup – and don’t miss out on priority access to events by joining our community. Members always get first dibs! What was your favorite 2024 event? Let us know in the comments!
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1 year ago
Love is a shot in the dark, and these singles took their chance to find their perfect partner at our Dine in the Dark exclusive dating experience! šŸ’› We brought together hearts and palates for a night of great food and amazing connections thanks to @hq.dc.house during our first CarpeDM event of 2024. If you’re looking to meet the amazing people of our community, make sure to submit your CarpeDM dating profile today and get exclusive access to all of the amazing events we have planned this year. ✨ • • • #dcevents #dcsingles #dmvsingles #washingtondclife#washingtondc #matchmaking #blackwomen#seizethedating #blacklove #blackmen #dcnightlife#membersonlydating
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2 years ago
Everyone’s talking about Megan Thee Stallion and Klay Thompson… But this feels familiar. Sometimes it’s not a bad relationship, it’s a misaligned one. Chemistry can feel real. But if you’re not aligned on trust, consistency, and what you actually need… it won’t last. Respect to Megan for standing on her non-negotiables. šŸ’¬ What’s one non-negotiable you won’t compromise on? #DatingClarity #BlackLove #ModernDating #HealthyRelationships #megantheestallion
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17 days ago
✨ Member Spotlight: ATL-002 ✨ Atlanta ladies — meet a man who values faith, intention, and meaningful connection. ATL-002 is 52, 5’10, slim, brown-skinned, clean-shaven, master’s-educated, and works in education. He’s grounded, social, and enjoys a full life — from live music and good energy to quiet, intentional moments. He’s been married before and is open to love again — seeking a committed relationship, just not rushing the process. He’s looking for a feminine, confident woman (38–50) in Atlanta who shares his Christian values, communicates well, and is open to letting something grow naturally. If you’re aligned… šŸ‘‰šŸ¾ Follow @nazawithlove šŸ‘‰šŸ¾Submit the interest form linked in her bio and use Code ATL-002 #blackdating #thingstodoatl #atlantasingles #blacklove #matchmaking
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25 days ago
✨CarpeDM Member Spotlight - CALI-001✨ Alright this one is for my seasoned sisters who know love has no age limit! This handsome CarpeDM gentleman is 67 years young, 5’11, and in shape with an athletic build. He’s educated, well-traveled, and ready for something real. If you’re a black woman in the U.S. between the age of 45–65, who is physically fit, poised, and polished, then this could be your match! šŸ’ž šŸ‘‰šŸ¾ Follow @nazawithlove and šŸ‘‰šŸ¾ Submit the interest form linked in my bio using the code CALI-001. Good luck! šŸ¤žšŸ¾ Like, share & comment to help this wonderful man find his perfect match! #intentionaldating #blackdating #maturedating #datingafter40 #blacksingles
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1 month ago
✨ CarpeDM Spotlight: DAL-001 ✨ Dallas men — meet a woman who is ready for a love that feels like your favorite R&B song šŸŽ¶ She’s 42, 5’5, brown eyes, curvy-fit, a proud mom, corporate leader, and woman of faith who loves to laugh, cook, travel, and enjoy life with her people. She’s warm, self-aware, and ready for a balanced, intentional relationship with a man who is faith-led, emotionally mature, and consistent. If you’re ready for something real — joyful, grounded, and built to last…. then this could be your match! Follow @nazawithlove 🩷 šŸ‘‰šŸ¾Submit the interest form in my bio and enter Code: DAL-001 Let’s put real love on repeat! #thingstodoindallas #dallassingles #blackloveā¤ļø
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1 month ago
Do you believe an attractive partner says something about your own self-image? On this episode of @thespicylife podcast Relationship Expert @Spicymari sits down with Tech Founder & CEO of @carpedmdating @Nazawithlove to explore ā€œhow to work smarter, not harder at finding love.ā€ We discuss unattractive qualities, red flags and the role vanity plays in our dating choices.
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1 month ago
We love seeing the moment right after a first video date ends. šŸ™ŒšŸ¾šŸ«¶šŸ¾ The little pause… the smile… the ā€œokay, that actually went really wellā€ energy. You never know what will happen when two people meet for the first time, but sometimes the conversation flows and the connection feels easy. Moments like this are always what it’s about. #CarpeDM #BlackDating #DatingJourney #BlackProfessionals
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2 months ago
✨ Looking back at our Galentine’s Day in DC! ✨ Thank you to @hq.dc.house for a beautiful space, and to @breannaaponte for bringing her energy and authenticity to the day. šŸŒøšŸ„‚šŸ’¬ From flower arrangements with @amorbloomsdesign to confessional moments with @metroties every detail was designed to celebrate friendship, connection, and meaningful experiences—the heart of CarpeDM. Here’s to more laughter, more champagne, and more moments that make your heart full! šŸ„‚šŸ’– #CarpeDM #RelationshipFirst #CommunityVibes #DCEvents
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2 months ago
✨ CarpeDM Member Spotlight: DMV-003 ✨ šŸ“¢ DC men — meet a 5’11 West African gem šŸ’Ž . She’s a self-aware, emotionally intelligent woman who is ready to build. She’s 42, no children (but open to having them with the right partner), grounded, faith-centered, and values acts of service, communication, and steady leadership. She doesn’t need flash. She needs consistency. Patience. Curiosity. She’s drawn to a well-kept, witty, kind man (5’9+), slim/in shape, not flashy — maybe a little nerdy šŸ¤“ — who believes in Jesus, is financially responsible, and values family. Ideal date? Exploring the city, ramen, then cozying up at home. If you’re in the DMV area & aligned…then this could be your match! šŸ’ž šŸ‘‰šŸ¾ Make sure you follow @nazawithlove šŸ‘‰šŸ¾ Submit the interest form in my bio using code DMV-003 Intentional men only. šŸ’« #dmvevents #thingstododc #blacklovegoals #christiandating #blackdating
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2 months ago
✨ CarpeDM Member Spotlight: CHI-001 ✨ Chicago ladies — meet a man who wants that 90s kinda love and isn’t afraid to show it. He’s 37, educated, fun, self-aware, trustworthy, and a true nurturer in love — he believes in courting, showing care, and balancing effort with respect. Positive energy, honesty, and communication matter most. He’s looking for a woman 27–37, in shape, who wants kids, is confident, intelligent, and approachable. Sound like you or someone you know? Then this could be your match šŸ’ž šŸ‘‰šŸ¾ Follow Me šŸ‘‰šŸ¾ Submit the interest form using code CHI-001 Good luck šŸ¤žšŸ¾šŸ˜ #blacklove #chiblacksingles #intentionaldating #blacksingles #blackprofessionals
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2 months ago