Blessing Edeks

Staying in abusive/unhappy marriages harms kids. Leaving with dignity is better than exposing children to abuse, cheating, and public ridicule. Especially, when aired in public. For anyone supporting any of the three people in this current scandal, it says a lot about your character. How do you justify sleeping around while still married, or sleeping with someone else’s spouse? None of this has any justification whatsoever. While you’re messing around, think about the future of your innocent children. They’ll go to school and get bullied because of their parents’ behavior. Remember, the internet never forgets. The validation you’re seeking will only destroy you more, and your situation will get worse - just like what’s happening to everyone caught up in this scandal. Some of you assume that people who don’t air their dirty laundry are only protecting their partners. No. They’re also protecting themselves and their children. The things some of you put out publicly are too embarrassing to even mention, but you selfishly post them because you think you’re getting back at the other person. The mentality of trying to destroy someone while forgetting about your innocent kids shows how selfish some people are. You open yourself and your children up to ridicule, then cry foul when they get dragged into your mess. Remember, kids carry the weight of adult choices they didn’t make. Behind Nigeria’s economic and social challenges lies an often-overlooked crisis: mental health. We have a lot of damaged people who need therapy. Without urgent investment in mental health education, stigma will persist and a generation will suffer in silence. Unregulated harmful content online is bad for children, and the problem is worse when parents are too hands-off about discipline and monitoring their kids’ activities. We all collectively can do better.

Death is like the coming of Jesus Christ, no one knows the date, nor the hour of its coming Rev. 6:15. Learn to balance your life, make room for your spouse, your children, friendships and extended family, but number 1 on this table is you, take care of yourself. Early on, I made it a point of responsibility to travel with my kids, minimum of once a year, even when my hubby couldn’t join us, because of church and circular work commitments. There was a time I didn’t have time for family or friends, I had zero social life. The Holy Spirit woke me up one day, and said I will lose the bond with my children if I don’t take drastic steps to bond with them, then I put the once a year travelling plan in place. These holidays was a time I just listen to what is happening in their lives, with no distractions! It had to take a shift in my Pastoral responsibilities to adjust my friendship and extended family relationship. My friends and I plan mini events abroad to get everyone together and go on local dates. Extended families close to me, I attend their events. Death is one thing you can never comeback from, when you are gone, you are gone! At death, everything stops, you can’t action any plans! I know some churches in the UK who encourages young people to marry when they find partners, why not, if you are convinced that is the one for you, why wait?!. Now you have young people marrying at 22+, with the right foundation, that marriage will thrive, till death do you part. Marriage is not how long the courtship, but marrying the person who truly loves you, respect you, is kind and protects everything that concerns you, above all, loves and reverence God! Love up on those who love you, and stop focusing on those who don’t like you, they are inconsequential in the scheme of your life. Go on trips with your circle, If you can’t afford to go on the cheapest trips, take your food to the park and eat. Live your life unapologetically, but with alignment with the word of God, because He is the one you are accountable to. Live today like it is your last! May the Lord give us wisdom to navigate this thing called life. God bless us. Amen! Stay safe, be kind and keep loving. 🙌🏾❤️🥰

I hope you were spoilt and you took time out to pamper and spoil yourself for Mother’s Day? Mine was good, thank you! I took out time to go and see the Michael film yesterday and it was well worth it! There are a lot of lessons to learn from the film. (1) Discover what your purpose and path in life is and follow it. (2) Give so much love to your family, and friends, but don’t lose sight of your individual purpose. (3) Know who you are and never let anyone talk you out of aiming big. (4) Do not envy anyone, social media doesn’t showcase the real life of people. (5) Everyone deserves some level of grace. (6) If you have to cut people off to pursue your dreams, please do and they will come back celebrating with you when God perfect the vision. (7) Remember, He gave you the vision, so don’t expect everyone to understand it. (8) Whatever you do, please be kind and leave the world better than you met it. (9) It’s often easy to tell people what to do, especially when you are not in their position. (10) The question is, how would you react if you were in their position? If you haven’t seen the film, please go and see it. 😍😍😍In between, I was awake all through, even singing along quietly. Karo was shocked her mother was awake all through, that’s how you know the movie had so much to give, and no dull moments 😂

As mothers, your strength, kindness, and wisdom have shaped not just your children but young people who you come in contact with daily. You make sacrifices that are barely seen, but the rewards are in the fruits they produce through your children and others you bless with your motherly love and wisdom. May your love and sacrifices yield fruits that will remain in Jesus name, amen. Please, take timeout to pour into yourself too, as your strength and wisdom needs to be replenished. May this day and always be filled with love, laughter, and cherished moments with your loved ones. Happy Mother’s Day to all the amazing moms who make the world a better place with their unconditional love and selfless care.🥰🥰🥰

Sometimes, we get so worried about losing relationships that we allow what we are meant to disallow. Clear boundaries at the start of any relationship helps everyone in that relationship understand what is acceptable and not acceptable in that relationship. Remember, what and who is for you will surely be for you. Do you really know who you are, do you know who God is? I don’t think you do! The bible says, greater is he who is in you than he who is in the world! 1 John 4:4. It’s like the training you give your child, and that child becomes used to it. It will be difficult for that child to deviate from that training, except from some powerful external influences. The bible talks about the different kinds of relationships, one between friends, spouses, children and their parents, between siblings and with extended families. Every answer you seek is in the word of God 2Tim. 3:16-17. In a world where people are trying to outdo each other, instead of themselves, be your authentic, genuine and honest self, and God will reward you, as He is the only one who knows the intent of every man, and he will reward you with His perfect gifts Luke 16:15. He is also the rewarder of those who diligently seek Him Hebrew 11:6. If you have to constantly question the love or loyalty of the people you are in a relationship with, maybe that’s a relationship you need to step away from. Every relationship is meant to give you peace and the ones that aren’t giving you peace, especially the extended ones, step away from. The ones within your nuclear circle, pray and work on, because that’s the one God has given you the primary responsibility to nurture and give account of, but you see the extended relationships, love them from afar. You cannot come and go and Kpai yourself, and God won’t even hold you responsible for their flaws. You see your children and spouse, you better give your all to, because they are your God given assignment, and they are a reflection of you. Wishing you all a very fruitful and productive weekend ❤️❤️❤️

I want to take out time to say a big thank you to my account inspector😂. She checks what I am buying, queries my spendings and why I need an item. Most times, I have made up my mind about buying the item, but just giving her update on what I am doing when I am planning an event. Fun fact, I never listen to her, as I will still go ahead and purchase the item😂 Tolumi, you are the voice of reasoning when it comes to my impulse and expensive purchases. Well, Mary, Toyin, Toun and Lauretta have given up! Mind you, you all end up liking my ideas in the long run😜Girl, you know I love you and I really love that you are always in my corner. Don’t come for Tolumi’s aunty, she will fight you!!!😂. Thank you for loving me so dearly, genuinely and for always showing up when I call. I really appreciate the constant support you give, no matter how great a sacrifice it is. May God answer all your secret prayers beyond what you can imagine. I pray God strengthens you for the task ahead. I love your thoughtfulness, and your dedication to whatever you set your heart to do. Sometimes, I wonder how you are able to wear all these hats perfectly. Looking forward to a greater future with you in it, where we all individually and collectively share our successes, accomplishments, growth in every ramification. Tolumi, I love you and I got you!! 🙏🏾😍😘

Where do I even start from @mos_empire . I know I did you a favour many years ago, but not many people will come back to show appreciation and still consistently show loyalty as much as you have done for over two decades, precisely 2002! Wow! How time flies, when you are having fun with the people you love and who love you back. I am truly grateful for all the times you have flown across oceans to attend any event we put together. Pastor Jonathan, the kids and I are forever grateful for your love, support and loyalty to our family. I remember when David’s church asked for the names of his parents, and siblings to put them in the first and second roll seats and I saw the seating arrangement, and though your surname was different, but had you as his adopted sister in front of your name, I smiled. When I get old and grey, over 100years 🙌🏾and called home, they will definitely be in good hands. Thank you aunty Mopi, as they usually call you, for everything. God bless you and yours. You are God’s love personified, and as you have watered us, may you be watered a million times over, in Jesus name, amen. May all your heart desires come to pass in Jesus name, amen. Things that are impossible and challenging for others, God will cause them to be easy for you, amen! We are here for you, just call and we will show!!! Let’s go!! We love you and God bless you aunty Mopi🙏🏽🙏🏽😘😘💕💕🥰🥰

Dear Ladies, If you are promiscuous, you like to sleep around, you like other people’s husbands or fiancé, below are the categories of people who won’t like you and would probably troll you: Moralist: someone who has very strong opinions about what is right and what is wrong. People in committed relationships who ladies like you intentionally get pregnant for their partners and as a result, destroyed their relationships. Married women who can’t stand women who are badly treated by ladies like you, because truth be told, some of these relationships were made very public, but the spirit of covetousness won’t let you leave people’s men alone. Women who can’t stand ladies like you who mock other women, even though your actions caused the breakdown of their relationships and you still out justifying the wrong. Of course, you would have some people who genuinely love these women , not happy about what they have been through, and still not being left alone by their husband’s exes or side pieces. Women who would expect you to concern yourself with your baby daddy if you are a baby mama, instead of the war with the innocent wife who didn’t ask you to sleep with her man. So, the people you are focusing on might not even know you exist, they may have probably moved on and you are now in their past. (CONTD)

Apparently, a man in a public relationship, with both families in the know of the relationship can still be slept with and have kids with, according to some of you ladies, because he has not finally put a ring on it. Our society is morally bankrupt, hence the instability in families. A man in a committed relationship is taken, you shouldn’t entertain him. If he is interested in you, let him first breakup with the woman he is with and publicly announce to the public that you are now his love interest and he is no more interested in the former. A man who can’t control his sexual huge can promise you his mother and father’s organs just to have access to you. The fact that he is spoiling you with gifts doesn’t mean he loves you, values you or would take the relationship further than having transactional sex& with you (you are not his princess😂). I thought your generations have sense, you say you all are now independent, exposure and technology everywhere, but you lot still make dumb mistakes and decisions. The worse, is how you lot argue confidently and still find yourselves in worse situations. Thank you for the enlightenment, though. Now I can educate young ladies better, to avoid the messed up mentality that some of you ladies have. (CONTD)

I am a moralist, I won’t troll you but I will advise you (sorry oversabi aunty). Our society is already bleeding from different things, broken homes, wars, family feud, unrest, lack of peace (even with plenty money), unhappiness etc. All these is because of immorality, greediness and not living out the word of God. It’s funny how some of you are quick to quote the bible, but your physical life is far from the teachings of Jesus Christ. Read Gal. 6:7-9. Am I perfect, far from it, but let’s all strive towards perfection. Sin is sin, but there are some sins, man and God can put it as lack of knowledge, but there are others that are so glaring and there are no excuses for them. The life most of us are living today and the situations we find ourselves in today, are what we intentionally planned for, because most of them could have been avoided. Instead of us blaming others, take accountability, and do better. How do you do better, by leaving your past in the past and starting life all over again. Be determined to outdo your past, not for anyone, but for a greater testimony of what God is capable of doing in a man’s life, because what God cannot do does not exist. There are so many great doors God is expecting us to open, but we are unable to open, because of pride, selfishness, greed, covetousness, envy, bitterness etc. Instead of opening these great doors, we have become prisoners of our past. The bible says: “You have gone around this mountain long enough” is a powerful message from Deuteronomy 2:3, symbolizing that a season of stagnation, repeating mistakes, or wandering has ended. It is a divine directive to stop unproductive cycles, embrace change, and move forward toward new goals or spiritual growth. There are great doors to open today, prosperity, healing, happiness, peace, love, new relationships, new businesses, new opportunities etc. Walk away from your past mistakes and move forward to new opportunities. Sometimes, people advising you are seeing what you aren’t seeing, because some situations will short circuit your vision, so always keep an open mind. God bless us all. ❤️❤️❤️

My pastor once told me to choose a man who truly loves God, and God went above and beyond. He gave me David, a man after His own heart ❤️ #DoItForDaVine @dkedeks love you forever ❤️ Make up: @beautebymaz Bridesmaid make up : @cotildascreation Lashes: @mplashesss White Wedding hair: @soireeventures Traditional Wedding hair: @beautifybykm Photographer & Videographer: @firstchoicefilmz #blacklove #christianlife #grace

A time was had!!😂😂😂 Too many videos and pictures. Two agbayas😂🙆🏽‍♀️💕💕