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A community for BLENDED families; whatever that may look like to you 🤎created by @xkateferdinand
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Would you say creating a safe space is more important than strict parenting? #blended #blendedfamily #stepparenting #parenting
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2 days ago
Do you think children repeat relationship patterns they grow up seeing?? #blended #blendedfamily #blendedfamilies #parenting
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2 days ago
You can’t control the narrative they create, only the stability you bring. Stay calm, keep boundaries clear, and focus on the home you’re building. Peace isn’t found in proving yourself, it’s found in protecting your energy. #blended #blendedfamily #blendedfamilies #narcissisticex #narcissisticabusesurvivor
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3 days ago
Do you agree that emotional cheating can sometimes hurt more than if it was physical?? In this week’s dilemma, a stepmum revealed that she’d had to navigate her husband repeatedly emotionally cheating on her on top of everything else that she’s handling. You can watch or listen to this new episode of Blended now, wherever you get your podcasts. #blended #blendedfamily #blendedfamilies #stepparenting #stepfamily
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3 days ago
Do you agree that women take on too much?? #blended #blendedfamily #stepfamily #stepparent #stepparenting
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3 days ago
A stepmum writes in saying she’s drowning. She’s handling court battles, solicitor emails with a high conflict ex, helping her husband run his business, raising children, all while trying to heal from repeated emotional cheating in her marriage. Do you agree with Nathalie and Cilla’s advice?? Let us know your thoughts below #blended #blendedfamily #stepfamily #stepparenting #stepparent
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3 days ago
What’s your advice for this dilemma?? Watch or listen to this episode now wherever you get your podcasts 🤍 #blended #blendedfamily #blendedfamilies #stepparenting #stepparent
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4 days ago
In this week’s episode, Kate is joined alongside Nathalie and Cilla where they unpack one layered and emotionally heavy dilemma from a stepmum who feels like she is drowning. She is navigating a high conflict ex who tells the children that their parents would still be happy if she was not around, even though she had nothing to do with the breakup. At the same time, she has discovered emotional cheating in her own marriage, messages, pictures and behaviour that have left her questioning how far it really went. Between solicitor emails, court battles, blended family pressures and constant tension, she feels like she is carrying more than one person should. The ladies discuss emotional cheating, trust, burnout, gender roles, the realities many blended families face and so much more! Comment Watch and we’ll personally send you this week’s episode. Don’t forget to like, follow and share with anyone you think needs to see this 🤍 #blended #blendedfamily #blendedfamilies #stepparenting #stepparent
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4 days ago
🤍🤍🤍 #blended #blendedfamily #blendedfamilylife #stepparenting #stepparent
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5 days ago
🤎MONDAY MOMENTS🤎 Today’s dilemma from a member of our Blended community is: “I’m 5 years on now with my new partner. My ex has consistently turned my kids age 13 and 17 against my new partner calling him the rat and having a code with my youngest to alert him when my partner is at my house - ‘is it raining’ he’s there is it sunny ? He isn’t there. After 5 years we want to do a family holiday with my partner and kids but my ex has given the kids an ultimatum saying he won’t take them away if they go with the rat and saying he feels sad and he can’t believe they want to spend time with someone who hasn’t been nice to their dad. He doesn’t like my ex and they have had an argument in the past and now he won’t let me move on or my kids accept me new partner. The kids have said they don’t want to come on the holiday now as they don’t want to upset their dad. What do I do?” Please share your advice in the comments below. 🤎 #blended #blendedfamily #blendedfamilies #stepparent #stepparenting
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6 days ago
Would you say teenagers are manipulative?? Catch up on this episode now, wherever you get your podcasts 🤍 #blended #blendedfamily #blendedfamilies #blendedfamilylife
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9 days ago
Have you had this conversation yet with your kids or stepkids? #blended #blendedfamily #stepparenting #parenting
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9 days ago