To every woman.
To every girl who has ever felt caught between faith and her identity.
To every woman who is truly seeking God—and seeking herself.
To every woman who has been silenced by culture but found her voice in God.
To every woman who has used faith to break ceilings.
To every woman who has felt silenced by the Church.
To every woman who has been betrayed by men—no matter what uniform they wore.
This is for you.
And it’s for the men too.
Because the future is not female.
The future is whole.
A future where both genders are seen, respected, valued, and empowered.
Equal.
Equitable.
As God created us; Imago Dei.
Not just as image-bearers, but as representatives of Him.
Ambassadors for Christ.
Called to execute His will, His dominion, and His power here on Earth.
I wrote this book for you.
Because your questions are holy.
And Deity is not fragile;
God is not afraid of your search for truth.
When God Met a Feminist is officially out.
Available in paperback and hardcover.
Link to purchase is in my bio.
Thank you.
Happy Birthday to me.
And welcome to a new kind of conversation.
#WGMAF
Hi, my name is Bisola Badejo—and I don’t believe in work-life balance.
This is a reintroduction, especially for my new followers here.
I don’t believe in work-life balance because I don’t think life and work can ever fully “balance.” I believe they are intertwined—like balls we juggle at different seasons. And not all balls are made of the same material. Some are rubber and bounce back when dropped. Some are glass and must be handled with care.
So here’s me, telling you about the balls I juggle.
I’m a Christian.
I’m a wife to Tomi Badejo.
I’m a mum to Nathaniel “Nate” Oluwasemilore Badejo.
I’m a pastor at Celebration Church and privilege to be the resident Pastor @cci_ikorodu
I work as the CEO of Celebration Church International, executing the visions of the Church Leadership.
I’m a writer. I wrote a fiction book titled Life Row—which hit #1 on Okada Books the week it launched. It’s still available if you’d like to read it.
I’m a Christian fiction blogger—I dropped that ball when life got overwhelming.
I’m a productivity coach. I also run a YouTube channel where I teach productivity, faith, and life lessons.
I dropped that ball too when I became pregnant.
I’m popularly known as Iyaloja of Fields. It’s my life’s assignment in a moniker. 😁
Today, I’m picking up the YouTube ball again. And I’m excited.
My first new video drops Friday, and a sneak peek (excerpt) will go live today at 6pm. Stay tuned.
I’m currently writing a book titled When God Met a Feminist. I’ll also be releasing another fiction book this year. And I’m gently eyeing the blog again—just looking for the right person to help set it up properly. That ball is laid down for now, but I’ll pick it up again soon.
So that’s me.
Now, over to you—
Who are you?
Which part of my story resonates with you?
When did you start following me—and why?
Let’s connect.
Why I’m Writing When God Met A Feminist
It started with a stirring in my spirit—God asking me to write about submission, feminism, faith, and how Christian women should navigate it all.
For months, I postponed it. But then I started tweeting what I believed:
That salvation restores our dignity.
That the Bible, though written in a patriarchal culture, is not a patriarchal book.
That God is not pro-male in the way some men have weaponized Him.
That Jesus loves women, elevates women, and defends women.
And the backlash came.
Women insulted me. Called me names. Mocked my faith and my marriage. Said Christian women are beyond help. Dumb. Lost.
But instead of shrinking, I found clarity: this book is needed.
Not just for Christian women who are torn between faith and feminism,
But for the confused, the skeptical, the silenced.
For the men who love women but don’t understand how to show it through God’s lens.
For those wondering how a God who loves us could let patriarchy reign so long.
So this is me—obeying God.
This is me—writing.
I know the price might be backlash, but I also know the reward is freedom.
When God Made Me Feminist is coming.
You’ll get a free chapter by March 23rd.
Pre-order opens at the end of this month.
I’d call for beta readers soon, would you volunteer?
This is not just a book.
It’s a conversation. A call. A declaration.
And you? You should get ready.
#WGMAF #WhenGodMetAFeminist
Because you are here, the world shouldn’t have to search for God. That’s the beauty of Imago Dei; we were created to reflect Him, carry His nature, and reveal Him everywhere we go.
Last Sunday took us back to The Original. We are reminded that the Creator already settled our value from the very beginning. From the fire burning on the inside to the spaces God has placed you in, nothing about your life is random. You were created to walk in dominion and reflect Christ boldly.
Swipe through to see what it looks like to walk in your original form.
Which slide is your takeaway from last Sunday? Let us know in the comments.
See you tomorrow. Come ready to learn even more!❤️
See you tomorrow
#cciikorodu #Purpose.
The balance that is required for this conversation!
Episode 6 will teach you that single parenting is not shameful, it is not automatically heroic, it is not ideal by design, but it is reality. And we know that God meets people in reality.
Swipe through for the full conversation. 👉🏾
Episode 6 is live, watch the full episode, link in bio. 🎙️
💬 Which slide hit different for you and why? Drop it in the comments. 👇🏾
#spiritandspicepod #singleparenting #realconversations
Little shoulders were never designed for adult burdens. 💔
Children should be allowed to simply be children, loved, nurtured, and free from responsibilities or emotional weights they never asked for.
This conversation may challenge how you see single parenting and shift your perspective in ways you may not have considered.
Watch the full episode on YouTube, Spotify, and Apple Podcasts, link in our bio. Don’t forget to subscribe 🔔
#spiritandspicepod #singleparenting #emotionalhealth
Share this post so a single parent can be encouraged 🤍
This video is dedicated to every single parent, a reminder that no one is forgotten in life’s hardest seasons.
Drop a word of encouragement for a single parent in the comments, your words might be the light someone needs today.
Watch the full episode on YouTube, Spotify, and Apple Podcasts (link in our bio). Don’t forget to subscribe 🔔
Have you seen Episode 6 yet? 🎬
If not, take the mic and tell us why you haven’t 😄#spiritandspicepod #singleparenting
Over the coming weeks, every Wednesday and Thursday, I’ll be coaching my subscribers on Substack how to navigate key aspects of their career.
This is Iyaloja of Fields’ Guide on Career. 🔥
Some of the most valuable lessons are learned outside school walls. Your degree is only one part of your career story.
Join 19,000 + people on Substack to get tips for your career and much more.
Read the full article, “What School Won’t Teach You”, via the link in my bio. 🔗
#BisolaBadejo #substack #newarticle
Why do some single parents prefer to do it all alone? 👀
It can feel like watching someone struggle with heavy bags, refusing help and still insisting on carrying everything themselves just to prove they are strong enough 💪🏽
That is what it feels like when a single parent tries to handle everything alone.
I once heard a single dad say,
“I want to raise my child by myself because I don’t want anyone saying they contributed to making my child successful.”
But parenting was never meant to be done in isolation.
No one is designed to carry all the pressure, responsibility, and emotional weight alone. 🤍
This episode will help you reflect on why we struggle to receive help and how it affects parenting 💭
Watch full episode on all our streaming platforms 🎙️
Available on YouTube, Spotify, and Apple Podcasts 📺🎧
Link in bio 🔗
#singleparent #spiritandspicepod #parentingjourney #realconversations
There are people waking up every day carrying two roles with one heart. Showing up tired, but still showing up anyway.
This episode is also for every single parent. We see you, we honour you, we appreciate you 🤍
Leave a word of encouragement for a single parent in the comments.
Episode 6 is out now 🎬
Watch on YouTube, Spotify & Apple (link in bio)
Don’t forget to subscribe and share 🔔
#singleparenting
#spiritandspicepod #singlemoms m #singledad
Some conversations make people uncomfortable.
This is one of them. 🔥
Episode 6 of Spirit & Spice is a sit-down about single parenting, the pressures, the loneliness, the responsibility, and what happens when society’s expectations collide with God’s design.
When the clock is ticking and society is watching, how much of our biggest decisions are truly ours? Let’s talk in the comments.💬
Now live. Watch the full episode, link in our bio. 🔔
#spiritandspicepod #singleparenting #realconversations #christianwomanhood
