This is one of the reasons why God is not using you in the dimension you want God to use you. Many ministers are victim to this trap ๐ชค
Listen carefully with a open heart
Tomorrow, Friday, is an appointment with divinity and you should not miss it for anything. When divinity meets humanity, the supernatural becomes a possibility!
If thereโs one meeting you need to attend for a change of story and status, this is one.
9PM is the time. Check flier for details.
See you there.
People who say they love you but never fix what hurts you, donโt truly love you... They enjoy the comfort of having you. Real love doesnโt ignore your pain. Love without effort, is just an illusion...
๐ง๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ก ๐๐๐ก๐๐๐ฅ๐ฆ ๐ข๐ ๐ฆ๐ง๐๐ฌ๐๐ก๐ ๐ฆ๐๐ก๐๐๐ ๐๐ข๐ฅ ๐ง๐ข๐ข ๐๐ข๐ก๐ ๐๐๐ง๐๐ฅ ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ฅ ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐
1. YOU GET TOO USED TO DOING LIFE ALONE
At first, it feels like strength. But over time, you stop knowing how to include someone in your life.
Not because you can't, but because you're no longer used to it.
2. YOUR STANDARDS RISE, BUT SO DOES YOUR INTOLERANCE
You know what you want now, which is good. But the problem? You also start rejecting people too quickly.
Nobody feels "good enough" anymore.
3. YOU BECOME TOO COMFORTABLE WITHOUT ACCOUNTABILITY
When you're alone for too long, nobody checks you.
Nobody challenges your attitude. Nobody corrects your blind spots.
So you grow, but only in ways that suit you.
4. YOU START CONFUSING PEACE WITH ISOLATION
You say "I love my peace."
But real peace isn't avoiding people, it's knowing how to maintain yourself with people.
5. YOU BUILD A LIFE THAT HAS NO SPACE FOR ANYONE ELSE
Your routine is tight.
Your decisions are solo.
Your space is fully yours.
Now someone comes in, and everything feels like a disruption.
6. YOU BECOME EMOTIONALLY GUARDED WITHOUT REALIZING IT
You've healed, yes.
But you've also built walls so strong, even the right person struggles to get close.
7. YOU START IDEALIZING LOVE INSTEAD OF PRACTICING IT
You watch, you observe, you analyze. But love is not theory. It's practice, patience, and adjustment.
And you might be out of practice.
8. THE LONGER YOU WAIT, THE HARDER IT CAN BE TO ADAPT
Not impossible, just harder.
Because now it's not just about love, it's about unlearning years of independence.
SINGLENESS IS NOT THE PROBLEM
But staying single without growth, reflection, and openness?
That's where the real cost is.
Be honest, have you seen this happen to someone?
Or even yourself?
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RIP ๐
#BreakingNews:
Popular Actor, Alex Ekubo don lรซggo at the age of 41 after รaโ โ le with รaฯยขer.
Family sources say na yesterday Monday, May 11, he leggo.
