Why did two women in their 30s risk it all to enter the funeral space?
đThis is us, Amanda and Lauren. It started as a tale of unfortunate events. After losing several loved ones in quick succession, we found ourselves searching for a memorial that felt rightâsomething personal, beautiful, and that gave back to the earth. Simple, right?
Like most Canadians, our families chose cremation. But what we discovered shocked us: cremation ashes are actually harmful to plants, with a pH similar to bleach and off-the-chart levels of sodium and calcium. To top it off, there were no science-backed solutions available in all of Canada.
So we changed that.
đŞ´Working with world-leading scientists and innovators, we offer a patented soil product that transforms cremated remains into plant-friendly, organic earth. Today, our Memorial Planting Kits are available at funeral homes across #Ontario, and cemeteries across
#Canada are rolling out entire gardens with our product.
If youâve ever wondered whether thereâs a better way to remember those we love, weâd be honoured to have you follow along. Together, we can make a greener ending. đż
đš Earlier this summer, we filmed a special video with @maticvisuals to showcase our Memorial Planting Kits â a meaningful way for families to create living tributes that honour their loved ones.
𪴠These kits make it easy to plant a memorial at home or in nature, blending tradition with personal remembrance. Itâs a beautiful way to celebrate life, nurture new growth, and keep memories thriving in the natural world.
đ Ask your local funeral home to stock AWAKE, and letâs make living memorials an option for families nationwide-wide.
âWhat if Iâm not good with plants?â
Honestly? You donât have to be.
One of the simplest Ashes to Earth⢠memorial options is spreading remains at the base of an existing tree, or outdoor space that already means something to your family. No planting experience needed.
There are even easy options for indoor plants, like a ZZ plant or Peperomia âHopeâ, that are forgiving, beautiful, and low-maintenance.
(And remember, if your plant doesnât thrive, memorial soil can always be carefully transplanted with a new plant.)
A living memorial doesnât have to be complicated. It just has to feel right for your family. đż
Our Seedling Partners are officially up and running. đą
A dedicated network of Ontario funeral homes now have Ashes to Earth⢠kits on their shelves, ready for families whenever the time feels right.
Is there one near you? Find the full list at the link in our bio. đż
Acrylic stands by @knoxaccessoriescanada
Poems by @victoriabutlerpoetry
Plants from @springwater_garden_center
Boxes manufactured in Waterloo, ON.
To all the moms, missing your mom đˇ
Thereâs no right way to do this day. You can celebrate her. You can grieve her. You can let your own family celebrate you, and feel her absence in the same breath. It can all be true at once.
And if youâre carrying today for your own family while quietly carrying her too â we see you.
If sheâs been on your mind lately, and youâve been thinking about a way to keep her close... a plant on the windowsill, a tree in the backyard, a garden corner that feels like hers â thereâs no rush. Thereâs no timeline for this. Only yours.
Whenever youâre ready, weâre here. đ
What would you plant for her? đ¸
"We've been talking about finally doing something with mom's ashes."
We hear this more than you know. And the next question is simple but significant: What would be meaningful?
A hydrangea that made her smile every spring. The maple tree from your childhood yard. Something that grows and changes with the seasons, the way she did.
If that conversation has been happening in your family, you're not alone. And there's no rush. đż
A place to visit. A garden that grows. A memorial that changes with the seasons.
Scattering gardens are one of the most meaningful â and most overlooked â options for families looking for something rooted in nature.
Some cemeteries offer them, and they may be closer than you think.
Check our link in our bio to find a partner near you, or send us a message and weâll help you figure out whatâs available. 𫶠đż
This video features the scattering garden at the Stayner Union Cemetery in Clearview Township.
Myth: You can scatter ashes anywhere in the garden and plants will thrive.
Fact: Cremated remains have extremely high pH, sodium, and salt levels that are actually toxic to most plants. Without the right preparation, more than half of plants wonât survive.
Itâs not common knowledge, and itâs not your fault if you didnât know.
Ashes to Earth⢠Memorial Planting Kits use a patented soil blend that converts remains into healthy, plant-ready earth. So the living memorial your family imagines actually has the roots to grow.
Want the list of our recommended plants? Send us a DM đą
âWhere do we purchase a memorial planting kit?â
We hear this question often, and the answer is: at your local funeral home.
Our memorial planting kits are available through funeral homes, who prepare them for planting and walk you through your options â gently, clearly, and at your own pace.
If youâre wondering about memorial planting, scattering, or creating something living with cremated remains, your funeral home can help you.
One family member who chose memorial planting shared:
âIt explained everything clearly and helped me make that big decision about what to do with the ashes⌠with grace and ease.â
If youâd like support exploring whatâs possible, your funeral home is there to help â when youâre ready.
đ Want to find a funeral home in your area that offers Ashes to Earth⢠memorial planting? Send us a message and weâll connect you.
#GreenBurial #MemorialPlanting #GriefJourney #EcoMemorial #AshestoEarth
The hardest part isnât always the funeral.
Sometimes itâs the quiet months (or years) after, when youâre holding their ashes and everyone expects you to move on or âknow what to do.â
A lot of families keep ashes at home because the decision feels heavy. Permanent. Emotional. And honestly⌠confusing.
A family member recently shared their feelings when they found Ashes to Earth⢠memorial planting kits after five years:
âI am so grateful for that product that allowed me to move through and move on. It helped me make that big decision about what to do with his ashes. I hope others can make peace with the endings⌠with grace and ease.â
If youâre still deciding, youâre not doing it wrong. Youâre just human.
When youâre ready, your local funeral home can walk you through nature-based memorial options like Ashes to Earth⢠planting kits â step by step, in your own time.
Save this for later, or share with someone who might be in this stage too đ
#GreenBurial #MemorialPlanting #GriefJourney #EcoMemorial #AshestoEarth
Three ways families are choosing to remember this spring:
đł Planting a memorial tree â in the backyard, at the cottage, on family land
đ¸ Creating a memorial garden â with flowers, herbs, or a quiet space to return to
đ˛ Scattering in a meaningful place â Algonquin, a favorite trail, by the water, in the woods
If any of these feel right for you, your local funeral home can walk you through nature-based memorial options like Ashes to Earth⢠planting kits â designed to turn cremated remains into healthy soil that supports long-term growth.
đ Which option speaks to you? Let us know in the comments: tree / garden / scattering
đ Save this for when youâre ready, or share with someone who might be wondering the same thing.
#GreenBurial #MemorialPlanting #GriefJourney #EcoMemorial #AshesToEarth
Sometimes grief feels helpless, like thereâs nothing you can do except get through the day.
Sometimes healing can be found doing something small and hands-on.
One family asked their funeral director if they could help mix the cremation soil for their memorial planting. It made them feel like they were truly part of it â not just watching from the side.
Turning the soil. Taking part. Planting something.
If a hands-on memorial feels right for you, like planting a tree in the backyard, scattering in a meaningful place, or creating a living garden, your local funeral home can walk you through nature-based options that give you an active role.
đ What do you think? Would this kind of participation feel helpful in grief? Let us know in the comments â or share with someone who might find healing with their hands.
#GreenBurial #MemorialPlanting #GriefJourney #EcoMemorial #AshesToEarth