We did it!!! 💍💫 We’re MARRIED!!!
Still floating from the most unforgettable weekend in Washington, DC. We chose DC not just because it’s the nation’s capital, but because it’s home to such a vibrant and powerful LGBTQ+ community. And what better way to kick off WorldPride than by saying “I do” surrounded by love, freedom, and Pride?
What makes this even more special is that it’s also 10 years since marriage equality became the law of the land in the U.S., 20 years in Canada… and this year marks 10 incredible years together for us. Wow. ❤️🌈
Huge thanks to @them and @destinationdc for throwing the wildest, most joyful wedding party we could’ve dreamed of. And thank you @sashacolby for officiating and being such a radiant part of our celebration. We’ll be sharing more soon, but just had to get this out there: WE’RE MARRIED!!!
To my husband @teraj08 , my love, my heart, my home… here’s to forever. 💕
@worldpridedc@capitalpridedc #Only1DC #destinationdc #washingtondc #WorldPrideDC #gaymarriage #gaywedding #gaycouple #gaylove #JustMarried #LoveWins #10YearsStrong #FabricOfFreedom
(Outfit 🥼 by @geoffreymac )
OMG, we made it onto a billboard in Times Square!! 😱🗽
I moved to NYC 9 years ago and used to walk through Times Square daily on my way to work… I never imagined I would one day see myself on one of those iconic billboards. Seeing a gay interracial couple sharing their love, like any other couple, was a surreal and deeply touching moment. And to top it off, it was us! What?! 👀 One of my driving passions is to represent and normalize LGBTQ+ love and relationships, whether boldly on a big screen like this or more subtly through social media. It is so amazing that this was viewed by hundreds of thousands of visitors to Times Square each day, displayed continuously 24/7 for over a month. This kind of visibility is huge—hopefully it helps challenge stereotypes, promote acceptance, and show countless people that love is love, regardless of gender or race.
Thank you, @visitwashingtondc , for sharing and taking a bold stand on inclusivity. Your support helps change lives and perceptions, making a real difference.
📸 @connaynay
#timessquare #nyc #newyork #lgbtq #gaycouple #interracialcouple #gaylove #loveislove #diversity #blasiancouple #asianrepresentation #ExperienceDC #Only1DC
If you’ve been following along with our adventures so far, you know I quit my 9-to-5 corporate job to travel the world with @teraj08 . I figured life was too short to ignore my passion, so we packed up our NYC apartment and embarked on a 7-month around-the-world adventure. We are about 2 months in, and I couldn’t be happier we took the leap towards a life less ordinary. We’re capturing all the moments and making everlasting memories together. And you know what? Life starts now…
I hope you are inspired to pursue your dreams. Save+Share+Follow along our journey of discovery. Also, let me know if you want to learn more about how I saved to retire early and how I planned this trip! Xoxo.
#barryandteraj✈️🌎 #chasingdreams #livinglife #adventureawaits #earlyretirement #aroundtheworld #worldtraveler #motivation #pursueyourpassion #gaytravel #gaycouple #9tothrive #travelblogger #outtraveler
Happy Lunar New Year from us from Hong Kong 🧧
Sending you a few Chinese new year greetings (or attempted). Wishing you all:
恭喜發財 - prosperity
大吉大利 - great luck and fortune
龍馬精神 - vitality, health, and energy
馬到功成 - success
身體健康 - good health
心想事成 - wishes that come true
新年快樂 - a happy new year
Wishing you wealth, luck, good health, and all the prosperity this year has to offer. ❤️
#lunarnewyear #hongkong #chinesenewyear #cantonese #新年快樂 @teraj08
Happy Valentine’s Day from Hong Kong ❤️🇭🇰 Celebrating love in all its forms today, whether with a partner, friends, family, or simply taking a moment for yourself.
We started with afternoon tea overlooking Victoria Harbour, soaking in those sweeping skyline views. Then a traditional junk boat cruise just in time for the Valentine’s drone show and the Symphony of Lights sparkling across the water. Followed by dinner at Nobu, and we ended the night back at the hotel with cake and quiet harbour views.
Grateful for this city and for a love that still feels like an adventure. Happy Valentine’s Day @teraj08 ❤️
#hongkong #valentines #valentinesday #discoverhongkong #gaylove
It was our first time skiing at @goremountain , and we went in without expectations, which might be why it surprised us as much as it did. As NY’s largest ski resort with over 100 trails and wide open views of the Adirondacks, it somehow never felt overwhelming. Even after two full days, we knew we had barely scratched the surface.
One of our favorite moments happened on a run called Echo. It had just reopened after being closed for a ski race, and it was one of those perfect runs where you can pick up speed while still feeling in control. We ⛷️ down it laughing the whole way, and at the bottom we immediately looked at each other and said in unison, “Again, again!” So of course, we went right back up and did it all over again.
Day 2 felt even quieter and more expansive. Freshly groomed trails, that satisfying corduroy cut beneath our skis, blue skies overhead, and sunshine that made it the perfect day to ski. We explored a few new runs at an easy pace, soaking in how open and calm the mountain felt. It was the kind of skiing day you wish you could stretch a little longer.
Skiing has become something we really look forward to when winter comes around, and trips like this remind us how lucky we are to have places like this right here in @iloveny . Especially when it’s this easy to get to, with a simple train ride out of the city, a quick car rental, and suddenly you are surrounded by mountains, fresh air, and world-class skiing, all right in our own backyard. (…Continued in comments)
As always, this year started with a suitcase.
It turned into different cities, different sunsets — and a story we keep writing together.
Where did 2025 take you?
#2025recap #newyear2026 #2025 #travelcouples #gaytravel
Happy 10-year anniversary, @teraj08 ! ❤️
Can’t believe we first met 10 years ago today—and now we’re married! You’ve brought so much joy into my life, and this past decade has truly been a dream come true. We’ve grown, created, and accomplished so much together.
To everyone who’s been part of our journey, whether you’ve been with us since the beginning or just joined along the way, thank you for all the love and support.
Here are 5 moments from these incredible 10 years:
1️⃣ Our very first photo together (exactly a decade ago today)
2️⃣ Our proposal on Top of the Rock in 2022
3️⃣ Our wedding this year during WorldPride in DC
4️⃣ Our friendsmoon in St Lucia last month
5️⃣ Today ❤️
#happyanniversary❤️ #anniversary #love #lovestory #couples #couplegoals❤️ #ourstory #gaycouple #gaylove #gaymarriage #lovewins #intergaycial
What if your honeymoon wasn’t just for two?!?!
We’ve been so lucky to travel the world already, and honestly, any of those destinations could have been our honeymoon. Instead, we did something a little different… a FRIENDSMOON!
We spent five unforgettable days in Saint Lucia with 12 of our close friends — hiking, making chocolate, sailing on a catamaran, cooking, dancing, and laughing together. 💕 Honestly, it felt even more special than a traditional honeymoon because we got to share it with people we love.
It reminded us that while love is the reason we travel, the people you share it with are what make the journey truly unforgettable.
Would you try a friendsmoon?
#friendsmoon #buddymoon #friendshipgoals #honeymoon #gayhoneymoon #newlywed #travelideas #gaytravel #gaycouple #gaywedding
What a weekend! @teraj08 and I had the best time at the Gay Polo League (@gaypololeague ) in Lexington #LexusPartner 🏳️🌈🐎. From rainbow goal posts to the satisfying thwack of the mallet (and yes, the tight white pants 👀), we soaked up every second.
The GPL isn’t just about polo, it’s about celebrating pride, inclusivity, and community through sport. From the thrill of the matches to the vibrant celebrations off the field, we made so many new friends and were welcomed in like family — which made the experience even more special. 💕
Big thanks to @lexususa for sponsoring such a meaningful, love-filled event and for supporting spaces where our community can come together in sport and in celebration. The #LexusTX, a spacious and stylish SUV, was the perfect ride for all our weekend and travel adventures. 🚙✨
Already counting down to next year’s chukkers, cheers, and chosen family moments.
#LexusGX #LexusGPL #GPL2025 #ExperienceAmazing #GayPoloLeague @passportmagazine #passportmagazine #gaypolo #gaysports #gaycouple #lexington #kentucky
We couldn’t be prouder to stand as #LexusPartners at this year’s @LexusUSA International @gaypololeague Tournament. Lexus continues to show unwavering support for the 🏳️🌈 community, and seeing #LexusGPL grow into a global gathering where athletes find not just teammates, but chosen family, is something that touches us deeply.
It still takes courage to live openly and authentically as an athlete, and GPL creates a space where that courage is celebrated, protected, and embraced. That alone is a victory.
Lexington, KY gave us a weekend to remember! We reconnected with old friends, made new ones, and cheered for every single team like they were our own. Because when the spirit feels this much like family, we’re all rooting for one another. At the end of the day, the real prize wasn’t medals or trophies, it was the lifelong bonds we know will carry on well beyond the field. ❤️
@passportmag #LexusTX #LexusGX #GPL2025
