31 today
just landed in nashville for a shoot, doing what i love for a living, about to marry my best friend, and living a life i never saw coming. feeling incredibly lucky, very grateful and very blessed.
things i have to remind myself of lately:
1. worrying doesn’t change the outcome it just drains my energy. i’ve spent way too much time overthinking situations that haven’t even happened yet and creating scenarios that literally never exist. i need to remember that if it’s not happening right now, i’m not giving it that much power.
2. imposter syndrome is something i feel not something i am. not because i’m not good at what i do but because i’m surrounded by people who are also really good. and i forget i’m one of them. i’ve done big things. i’ve earned my place. raising the bar doesn’t cancel that.
3. i want to control everything. i like a plan, i like knowing what’s next but life doesn’t work like that. i’m learning to let things unfold instead of forcing them.
4. life is really beautiful and also really unpredictable. we don’t know how long we’re here or what tomorrow looks like. so i’m choosing to trust myself more, the path that i’m on and the people i love.
5. we don’t get another yesterday. so i’m not wasting today on the wrong energy, the wrong people or playing small.
what are some things you need to remember?
