What is a Mother’s love? It’s accepting. It’s impactful. It’s warm. It soothes. It’s nurturing. It’s supportive. More importantly..it’s safe. That was my mother all in one.
I’m so proud of our growth over the years. As a child, I was scared to tell you things in fear of disappointing you. I just wanted to make you proud. When I finally got the courage to tell you everything, you simply looked at me and said “Baby, life is too short. As long as you’re happy, then everything is okay. And what I’m going to do…stop loving you?”.
It was no different from what you’ve always told me, but that time ensured me more than you can ever imagine.
A lot of healing happened whenever I came home. We grew to learn each other. Screaming matches became loving discussions. We understood each other’s frustrations and shortcomings. How we became each others best friends in telling all of our deepest secrets. My only wish is that I reassured you more on how great of a mother you were to us at times where you second guessed yourself.
My friends looked to you as a second mom. You always welcomed them with open arms, giving them gas money when they would bring me home from Atlanta. The church was home. You were devoted to God and his people. Working at a church took a whole lot of strength…a whole lot, but you did it with a smile.
I’ll miss the times coming home and surprising you. Your smile was the one thing I was always looking forward to. Your hugs gave me comfort. I’ll miss laying across your bed just talking. I’ll miss your calls asking me when am I coming home.
You were my safe place. I was always your little girl. When stressed, scared, discouraged, you always would tell me…”Well sweetie just pray about it”.
For those that still have your parents, love and cherish them as much as you can. More importantly, give them grace. Just like it’s your first time here living on earth figuring out life, it’s their first time being a parent.
My heart hurts, yet filled with peace. Your home going service embodied who you were as a person. That gave comfort. You were so loved Ma, but I know God loves you more. Tell grandma and Aunt Vanessa that we love them. ❤️
I called Grandpa my Gentle Giant. Tall, strong, large working hands, worked two jobs to provide for us. But what I admired most about him was his kindness. How soft spoken he was, but still was heard. He had the purest soul. Most importantly, he was the epitome of what it means to show unconditional love.
From the moment I got to college, he would always ask mom to call me and check on me. Always asked me if I needed any money. Even when I would decline, he would still slide me a 20 and proceeded to tell my mom to send me more.
My superhero. My twin. Family and friends adored you. You never judged. Always slow to speak ill of anyone. You welcomed everyone into your home. Quick to grab a coke out the fridge for yourself and the guest. If that wasn’t strong enough you would grab a Blue Ribbon or Budweiser. Didn’t have to do too much or wanted to be recognized. Your presence was simply enough. It was felt.
I love you Papa. Words can’t describe how much I appreciate you for everything you have done. You lived a great life. Always smiling. Laughing. I just pray that I have the wisdom, strength, and Lord knows endurance to continue your legacy. Rest easy for me 🙏🏽❤️✨
I like livin’ this way, I like lovin’ this way 🫶🏽✨
-A word from MJ
Dumpy dump for April. Kinda makes sense…kinda doesn’t..same as for life. We’re enjoying it though. Until next time ✌🏽✨☺️
We ain’t picture perfect but we’re worth the picture still ✨
Late but hope everyone had a great Christmas and have a Happy New Year too. Holidays are usually tough and look very different for me and Autumn, but we’re making it work. Might make it a lil tradition. Need to add some more photos to the family album anyway. ✨
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@_summerc made her way back to me 🤏🏾🔥💈
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Should Summer stay short for the rest of the year?👀
Adulting with a side of childhood dreams — still learning, still playing, and loving every moment in between.✨
2/4 🎈 God bless these 20 somethings
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