belinda cai

@__blender

🥀 𝗟.𝗔. 𝘄𝗿𝗶𝘁𝗲𝗿 🥀 @softertheband (LP out now!) ☁️we love you kelly☁️ writing (link) ⬇️ memes 🔁 (views on here are my own)
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barcelona ✔️ engaged ✔️ super stoked ✔️ so happy and looking forward to what’s to come! of all the international cities we’ve visited, barcelona is the one we could most see ourselves living in — though we’d never leave LA! — and was the perfect place to get engaged. <3 here are some of our favorite spots. it was hard to narrow these down to 20! you can look at @__blender ’s story highlights of the entire trip for recs! thx to those who followed along and gave advice & suggestions, talked about their upcoming trips, reminisced about their time here, etc. WE LOVED BARCELONA! and can’t wait to get married! 1. park güell 2. park güell + view of city 3. parc de la ciutadella (top), park güell (bottom) 4. casa batlló (exterior) 5. casa battló (interior) 6. sagrada familia (interior) 7. sagrada familia (exterior) 8. parlament de catalunya (top), lake at parc de la ciutadella (bottom) 9. top of cascada monumental at parc de la ciutadella 10. steps at parc de la ciutadella (top), gaudí’s fountain 11. mercat de la boqueria 12. paella from restaurant la taverna del coure (el born) 13. montserrat mountain range 14. santa maria de montserrat abbey (monastery) 15. santa maria de montserrat abbey (monastery) 16. mountain goat (top), montserrat mountain range 17. girona by onyar river 18. top of girona from castle wall 19. girona castle view 20. alleyway in el born we also enjoyed these neighborhoods: gràcia, la rambla, el raval (more local), el poble-sec (more local) update: piece now live on substack about the engagement, barcelona, and divine timing ~ read in belinda’s link in bio
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26 days ago
so honored to be published in “hobart pulp!” thank you @shortflightlongdrive ! this is one of my most vulnerable pieces: it’s about a codependent, abusive, and drug-addled relationship — and a time in my life when i was self-destructive and lost. i thought my purpose was to save someone else because i was too afraid to save myself. 🔗👼🏻read via link in bio👼🏻🔗 i trace these past behaviors to my childhood scars. it’s powerful to reflect back, and to know i’m healing one day at a time. to those who can relate to this story, i sincerely hope you are okay and healing too. remember, love shouldn’t hurt. 🫶🏼 you can reach out to me if you ever need support. ❕update: my latest “hobart” piece, “on american beauty & choosing to be childfree,” is also in my link in bio!❕
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9 months ago
summer days & nights with cute people 🌞🌑🌿💌
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9 months ago
today in burial: simply put, this poem from @__blender made me cry—it is gorgeous in its language and expansive in its feeling, with no wasted word or movement—so don’t you dare miss ‘baby,’ from one of the coolest writers at it in my hometown/favorite city (which is LA, fyi). read the whole piece at the l i n k in our bio.
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13 days ago
brought my daggers to the club for my bday. getting older isn’t so bad when you get to spend it with people you love! had an amazing birthday and, today, eric and i are off to spain! aries season / spring break, let’s gooo ⚔️🫖🥪🌷🎂🪩 night shots by @juice_caballero
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1 month ago
ariesmaxxing 🐏♈️❤️‍🔥 love u all photos 7 & 8 by @juice_caballero
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1 month ago
sexiest, sultriest, spiciest valentine’s day reading & party hosted by @formermissnj 🏹❣️🪽🎀 i was honored to have been a reader alongside such brilliant bbs! my piece for the evening was dedicated to my love and 4ever valentine @efabbrosia photos by the phenomenal @morganne.mov read my piece “tinderness” in my link in bio / on my substack
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3 months ago
party + reading + tarot + valentines ⛓️❤️‍🔥⛓️❤️‍🔥⛓️❤️‍🔥⛓️❤️‍🔥⛓️ ~featuring~ elizabeth ellen felicia urso isabel yi jimenez ruby zuckerman belinda cai david san miguel nastya valentine lily lady 👠 DRESS CODE: "Sexy" — whatever that means to you 💋 RSVP at link in bio!
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3 months ago
already obsessed with 2026! 👼🏻 ty @formermissnj for most of these stellar photos that have already been circulating but must be re-shared bc they are just too perfect
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3 months ago
3 year anniversary at the historic & iconic madonna inn! 💒🌷💘 it was the perfect spot to celebrate love and eat until we passed out (actually happened). these last three years have been filled with continued growth, healing, adventure, and — as always — delightful absurdity. glad we get to exist in this absurd world together :)
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3 months ago
EOY wrap-up! 2025 has been kind to me. i am profoundly appreciative and — for the first time in a long time — optimistic about what’s to come. :’) here are some highlights: — getting closer to longtime friends and making so many incredible new ones — traveling to tokyo, mexico, yellowstone, solvang, and pismo beach/oceano sand dunes, and visiting nyc — doing 10 live reading events including for @carcrashcollective @discountguillotine @sunflowerstationpress @mid.cult @vermicu.lt @hi_femme_ @nastyavalentine222 (book release) @ahsintheblacklodge (book release) + hosting a @discountguillotine reading — releasing an 8-track album for my band @softertheband — being published in hobart, @mid.cult @dreamboybookclub @hi_femme_ @specialinterestmag — my sweet sister @chicktweettweet getting married (and getting to read my speech for her and her husband @willfeint at their wedding) — visiting the chateau marmont with @formermissnj when the iconic @shortflightlongdrive stayed there during her LA visit — meeting countless creatives of all kinds who deeply inspire and motivate me — reading and writing a lot more (i’m determined to finish my manuscript in 2026) — seeing ag cook, slow pulp, alex g, diiv, spirit of the beehive, her new knife, bleary eyed, bully, and other bands i like — logging 120+ movies into letterboxd — 8 years of calling LA home — having the love and support of my inimitable partner @efabbrosia , my family, and my dear friends ♥︎ ty to all of the exceptional people in my life for making this year one to remember. love you all! 2026, let’s go! photogs: @priscilla_mars @juice_caballero @kodakeasysharec643 @mitchforte
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4 months ago
as winter approaches, i’m feeling warm & fuzzy bc i ♡ all of these wonderful people in my life! :’) ✩࿐࿔
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4 months ago